Please help 6.3.5->50

[viloletka]

I have very problematic relationship with my ex. The problem comes within me, I have a lot of anger and resentment towards him. he doesnt see things my way and does not have any regrets of feelings of guilt. Yet I agreed to meet him tomorrow so that he returns my stuff and I give him something that he requested. however I am having sdoubts, so i asked the i ching should i go. and the answer is 6 - conflict , which could not be clearer, we see things in very different way and i am having big problems with letting go and forgiving. changing lines are 3 and 5...does 5 mean state my case and explaining my views? i like 50 very much, but it is unclear what should i do to get there

 

[pocossin]

The situation is unclear, so response is difficult. If your ex is using your photo to blackmail you, you have every right to feel anger and resentment, and I do not think you should meet him alone. If the "something that he requested", for example, is your jewelry then you are dealing with a blackmailer. He is likely to have made copies of the photo and will use them against you in the future. Perhaps you should request a talk with a policewoman about how to deal with this and recover your stuff. Do you have family or friends who would "talk" to this person for you? He might be persuaded to release his hold over you without official involvement.

The Image of 50 says

Thus the superior man consolidates his fate
By making his position correct.

There is a correct way to deal with this situation once details are clear. The Caldron (Ting) provided a group meal. I think you need the support of those around you who understand the local situation.