please help II

[florecilla]

After posting my previous questions I asked the IC: What are the chances of having a romantic relationship in 2010? And this answer really shocked me, 56 (5) changing to 33. Exactly the same answer I got in my first question about the guy I met.
Does it mean I have to retire and remain single and lonely?? Am I going to be left on the shelf??? Just wondering, LOL.

 

[miakoda]

Dear Florecilla:

Many see the first and second hexagrams as flexible in their placement--so you shouldn't panic that it means 2010 will be dead. In my experience, the second, resulting hexagram is usually a description of the current state (in this case, retreat or retiring) and the first represents the way in which the change is coming about (through wandering). Since the line itself is very positive, I think you're being offered hope.

56.5>33 from the Wikiwing:

‘Shooting a pheasant,
Gets it with one arrow.
And so in the end, praise and a mandate.’

All best,

Miakoda

 

[florecilla]

What a relieve!!! Thanks for your reading. Also thanks for explaining what the first and second hexagrams mean. Maybe that is why I always get confused, because I think it is the other way around, that is, the first hex explains the current state, and the second hex shows what's going to happen, or the way I should behave, in other words, the advice.
Lately, things are getting so confused, I don't know which way to take or how to do things.Thanks again.