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neko2012

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Hello everyone! :D

I am new here, but have been reading posts and interpretations from this amazing community for quite some time (for as long as I've been practicing I Ching). :)

I'm (stuck) at the crossroads in my life :brickwall: and really need help from you guys in interpreting my IChing readings. My own fears/perception clouds my decision making and I need a different prospective from anyone who can contribute :)

I am at the point where I have 3 options in my life (I need to decide within a month):

1. Selling my house and moving with my child into a multi-family structure with my parents (pros-living together where help/support is always nearby, enjoying spending time together; cons-we tend to fight if we see too much of each other as my parents tend to get too involved in my life and think I should live it according to their plan... and I usually rebell)

2. Selling my house and moving into an apartment where will be living alone with my child (pros-peace of mind; cons-far a away from parents who can help out or need help, and it will be hard to visit)

3.Not selling my house and staying where I am until the time comes for moving to a different state (perhaps in 5 years) (pros-status quo, cons-expenses through the roof+a stagnant energy feeling and need for a change)

My I Ching readings:

I asked if taking a step #1 would be to my advantage. Got 21. (Does it mean I'd have to bite through my old issues with my parents and finally resolve them? I feel like taking step 1 would finally help me to resolve a lot of issues with them... but I'm afraid to end up living under their heel, if that's correct expression)

I asked if taking a step #2 would be to my advantage. Got 43. (Does this mean it would take courage on my behalf in following through this decision? )

Finally I asked if taking step #3 would be to my advantage. Got 51 w changing lines 4 & 6 into 27. (This one I'm totally missing...Does it mean that my fears may prevent the change from occurring? but why in the end it will be "nurturing"?)

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR HELP!!! :bows:
 

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you got two lines advising to stay still on #3 . moreover 51.6 is a warning of bad timing in making a change
 
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Yes, I agree with Gato. It certainly doesn't seem like a good time for #3. I think line 51.4 is saying you are not in a mindset to decide and line 51.6 is saying that there is this threat of panic about you that has not completely hit you. Not circumstances to make major decisions during. So, I don't think it is saying no, just not right now. Maybe some time in the future. My personal experience with 21 has been tough. Has required so much energy to deal with it. I've received this hexagram in various forms, unchanging and changing, when I began a door to door sales job. It was just one objection after the other. Didn't seem insurmountable, but exasperating to deal with. A lot of meeting people halfway. 43 unchanging might imply that it will be hard to make decisions with that option or difficult to resolve conflict. Perhaps 27 is saying don't move forward with this just yet. Take care of yourself first... I am new to this, and I am just giving you some thoughts. But, it doesn't sound like any of these are bad options to me. But, as Gato said, the key here does seem to be not right now for sure. Welcome to Clarity!

Dancing White Ferret
 

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Thank you so very much!!! You have no idea how valuable your input is to me!!
Dancing White Ferret, thank you for sharing your thoughts on my readings! Helped to clear up a lot of things. Totally agree w you on 21. I kinda felt it would be very draining to deal with, but felt like it could be the way to resolve some of my old family stuff. Your interpretation of 51.4 and 51.6 makes sense...that's why I'm posting about it here :) My contract to stay in my old house is up in a couple of months. But decision must be made sooner so I can start looking for a new place already. However, I felt something is gonna come up in my life soon that will turn everything around and I guess 27 is pointing to that, like you've mentioned. Should wait till something comes up then I'll know for sure.

Gato, I totally missed that about 51.6...your and White Dancing Ferret's comments clarified that for me. What are your thoughts on other hexagrams? Would love to hear that.

Input from other members is appreciated :)

Thanks again!!!
 

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