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ravelstein

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Hi, recently (october) I split up with my girlfriend in a very roughly way.
I asked the Yi what can I expect from her in november and I got 39.3>8.
I don't know if the Yi is telling me she's "moving back" to her friends and family, after having split up with me
or if it's telling she will come back to me. I'm asking because today it is 11th and nothing happens til now.
Thanks a lot!
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Sounds to me as if she is spending more time with family and friends...the text of the line describes someone who is prevented from moving forward due to the risks associated plunging ahead blindly.

While the preceding line shows the official compelled by duty to follow the way of danger, this line shows the man who must act as father of a family or as head of his kin. If he were to plunge recklessly in to danger, it would be a useless act, because those entrusted to his care cannot get along by themselves. But if he withdraws and turns back to his own, they welcome him with great joy.

So, maybe instead of going out and dating and trying to move on, she is finding comfort with her loved ones who are happy to see her? Maybe she has problems going on with her family right now that are requiring her attention? A sick relative, perhaps?
 

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Hi chucklesthegirl, thanks for your reply! Actually there's no sick relatives. Her family is fine and normally she spends allready a lot of time with them. Maybe it could refer to some friends of her? I also asked what will her attitude to our relationship and I got 50.1>14
It could indicate that she will remove "the old" (us) in order to replace it with something new.
Or maybe she's examing her way of acting (very bad, sometimes!!) with me? Can't understand how to interpret the responses.. :(
 

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No problem :)

The 39.3 and 50.1 kind of mirror each other in a way, if you think about it.

In 39.3, it says the person is unable to move forward....the 50.1 says the old contents will be tossed out to begin anew.

If you put the two together, it reads like this....she is examining the relationship, looking at how and where things went wrong and is attempting to work on those habits, tendencies, etc before she can move forward.

Perhaps she is spending time with girl friends. As a woman, I do understand the need to spend time with female friends following a fight or a break up with a boyfriend. often times, those friends can provide needed insights into our relationship patterns.

Give it some time. Maybe you two can be friends in the near future or work things out, or maybe you will go your separate ways. Hard to tell since it is so recent.
People need clarity and a bit of reflection before they can truly see things for how they really are.
 

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Yes obviously it's all so messy... I can't really imagine what will happen.
And yes..Maybe she's spending time with her girl friends now.
It has been really "dramatic" the way we split up, and I still feel "shocked" for how the things went between us ath the end. She acted very badly. And I'm still very hurted for that.
Anyway, we'll see what the future will bring..

Thank you chucklesthegirl!
 

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I asked the Yi what can I expect from her in november and I got 39.3>8.
I don't know if the Yi is telling me she's "moving back" to her friends and family, after having split up with me
or if it's telling she will come back to me. I'm asking because today it is 11th and nothing happens til now.

You're falling into several common errors in re: IC. It is not a fortune-telling tool. You can't know the future, but it will inform you of the present.

39.3 (along with Hex 24) seems to promise the return of your lover, but this is not a correct interpretation, it's a projection of your ego. You must return to yourself and stop wanting, plotting, planning, projecting... Find your own center and what is yours will come to you. Meanwhile, as painful as it sounds (and difficult as it is to accomplish) you must wholly let this other person go to find her own way. This is the path of love.
 

ravelstein

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Elias, thank for insights, I really appreciate what you wrote "You must return to yourself and stop wanting, plotting, planning, projecting... Find your own center and what is yours will come to you. Meanwhile, as painful as it sounds (and difficult as it is to accomplish) you must wholly let this other person go to find her own way."
I'm doing that, actually. Even if I asked the Yi about the future, I was allready let go the whole story. I am no acting. Nothing at all.
After that...I must say Elias that I do believe that the Yi can show us the future!
(Sorry for my english)
 

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After that...I must say Elias that I do believe that the Yi can show us the future!
(Sorry for my english)

Your english is very good! I can only pretend to speak anything but...

About IC and the future: as noted elsewhere, we mortals only see the present in terms of the past, and that conditions all our responses. So when we get a glimpse of the present, it looks like the future. That being said, the IC does provide some very remarkable insights into what is going on in the present moment, including what other people with whom we are connected are doing in this present moment.

As to predicting the future, IC reveals a conditional future in changing lines and resultant hexagrams. "If you continue in this present course of action, then the following will be the result..." There is a lot of wisdom -- the product of 3000 years of observing human interactions -- in the IC. Whether or not this is supernatural, spiritual, or psychological is something you need to sort out for yourself.
 

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