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kdedeaux4

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After moving to Las Vegas for my children to be closer to their father, we all realized it was a terrible idea. All except my ex, of course...who's *VERY* angry for many reasons that we left and returned to the safety of our home.
Sadly , my ex has now decided to "punish" my children and me for making this choice and doing it against his will. His behavior is atrocious..selfish, mean, and self-centered to the point of frightening. I discovered today that he now plan on taking me to court!! Overall, this isn't a bad thing bc I really should have taken him to court for child support long ago, but we had a seemingly friendly and respectful relationship, so I felt it wasn't necessary and worried it might just do damage to a good thing for my children and overall for me too. I was never concerned with getting "all I could get" financially from him. He's quite wealthy and money seems to be one of the most important things in the world to him; I only cared that he helped us when we really needed it and that he was a good father to our children. Now he's decided to wage war against me and of course odds are good he'll win whatever battle he takes on bc he's not chained by truth or integrity like I am. In addition, (again) he has all the money to wage this war legally, while I have barely enough to support my family. Big money for Big shot attorneys are not feasible whatsoever. I'm scared. My children are not only devastated at seeing this side of their father, but they are scared as well about what he's planning.
I asked the IC what will the outcome of court w/ M be?
41.2-->27

And I asked how can I win against him in this battle?
44.2.6-->31

Please help me with insight on these? I have a few thoughts, but nothing makes any order in my scatted and scared brain right now:-(
 

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All the hexagrams here are adverse for you in lawsuit your husband brings against you. You will have to find a way and to compromise. You must also remember that child support is done by formula in most states, and you can't get away from not paying it. So, if you need child support, you must demand it. It will drive your ex- crazy, but the children are entitled to it.
 

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I see very little in the first casting that would be adverse to you. Just state the facts, ma'am. 41.2 "Without decreasing oneself one is able to bring increase to others." Carol Anthony really nails this one: "It is not necessarily a good thing to serve another if, in doing so, we teach him to be self-centered and spoiled... it is wrong to serve another if it means we cater to his ego, or if such service entails compromising our principles...."

Of the second casting, the danger is of falling into vindictiveness or over-reaching. Again, simply state the facts. Truth will out.
 

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Thank you both so much! It's all very sad and the way this has hurt my children does make me feel angry and leaning toward "vindictive".... I want to believe that the facts alone will ensure that the right thing happens..terribly difficult though when he apparently sees no problem in lying hatefully... thank you Elias for reminding me not to give in to that negativity!
 

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