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Cellarkitchen

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51.1.5 > 45, 59.1.3.6 > 5, 41.2.5 >42

Hi,

I broke up with my boyfriend, but we kept seeing each other since then (it's been a month now). But then I told him something terrible two days ago and I'm worrying that I won't win him back. I have asked several times similar questions (I know it's ridiculous but I am feeling extremely bad) and had different readings which I don't entirely understand. I decided to post three of them and the questions were around the same area: Will me and him be together again after what happened a few days ago?

so the first one is:

51.1.5 > 45
59.1.3.6 > 5
41.2.5 >42

These are one of the first readings I did today, and these are the most favourable. I know I shouldn't be doing so many of them, but I am really seeking for answers and doing it all the wrong ways.
 

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Don't ask so many times. You'll just get even more confused.
 

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If your emotions are running high, find a time when you can find some inner quiet, perhaps with a pleasant distraction, or after a good night's sleep. Once you are quiet, look again at your first reading, including the exact question you asked at the time. Staying in your quiet place see if you can discern what Yi might be saying. I agree wholeheartedly with bradford here, continuing to ask will increase your confusion.

~rinda
 

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For now, I'd like to focus on 51.1.5

51 describes the current situation, including the thing you said that made things worse (temporarily?) Any breakup which is not a complete breakup will cause a lot of fear and trembling and many shocks, both good and bad. The I Ching is advising you to expect those shocks and watch that as dispassionately as possible. Pretend you're watching a movie, with you as the star. You expect dramatic things to happen, and you just wonder what they will be.

Line 1 predicts good fortune at the end. But good fortune may or may not mean staying together. When one is in the midst of a possible breakup, it's very hard to picture anything but a complete (and romantic) reconciliation as good. But that's not always the case. Still, this line is hopeful, and you can cling to that.

I think line 5 is predicting that you will not be satisfied with this throw of the coins and you will frantically throw them again and again (Shock goes hither and thither.) It won't hurt you to do so, but as previous posters said, it will dilute your answer.
 

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