Pls help: Hex 11.4=>34

[modesty]

Hi all,

I have come to accept that my wife and I will part way and that it's time to move on.
Last night, I asked the Yi to comment on my future family. I got 11 with line 4.

I understanding of Hex 34 cautions me of trying too hard. Taking both hexagram and moving line into account, does this mean I should be passive and wait for better things to come or is this wishfull thinking?

I would appreciate any help please

modesty

 

[bradford]

You might find a lot of emptiness for a time in a lack of deeper issues,
and even come to miss your troubles because they at least felt deeper.

 

[bruce_g]

You might find a lot of emptiness for a time in a lack of deeper issues,
and even come to miss your troubles because they at least felt deeper.

That's true. Despite all the positive PR 11 gets, it can feel pretty lonely. Om isn't the only vibe in the universe.

Modesty, I read line 4 as just being true to your core, and not celebrating your freedom too soon or rashly. Although, force is probably better than being lulled into depression, or else 11 can change to 12.

 

[willowfox]

"Pls help: Hex 11.4=>34"

Hex 11.4 says to cooperate with others, anyone who can help you move ahead in your situation.

Hex 34 you now have the power to inflence your situation, so think well before you do something as you now have the responsiblity of others to look out for, it is a time to be decisive but not clumsy. You are now the person in charge of all your affairs so do it well and correctly.

 

[modesty]

Thanks all, but I am just as lost as ever

Thanks all for your advices. I did not come across Hex 11 often and usually nothing much happened ( Bradford put it in a different way but very vey accuratly). I have to ask you for further help. I am currently Travelling ( to the home country of my wife). I casted the I ching and ask for it's comment on the state of play ( so the query is not so specific, but I learnt that Jung used this quite a lot) and advise

I got 56 (The traveller! how appropriate!!!) + 2+4+6 =>46. I am very lost!!! Can you help out on this onr\e as well?

modesty

 

[willowfox]

"I asked for it's comment on the state of play and the advice that I got was 56 + 2+4+6 = > 46."

Hex 56.2 you are taking your wife back home and you don't know what to expect there, but as you are being modest and reserved then you can expect someone to come to your aid.

Hex 56.4 you must now put a limit on what you want, you feel lost, uneasy, and unsure, you literally feel like a stranger who finds himself at a crossroads. You must find the right path and get back on it.

Hex 56.6 you lose your wife here, you have to return without out her, this makes you feel sad, you feel unlucky but there is nothing more that can be done, so now you must learn to adapt to your new life situation. Turn misfortune into a fortunate happening.

Hex 46 now you have returned to the US and your story now progresses onward and upward, by getting used to the fact that your wife is no longer around, to progress means to adapt to your changed situation. Climb out of your hole and find your way around the problems that you now face, success is out there, go take of it. So, now is the time to go and see people in authority who can help you and your son lead a normal life together. So start leading a normal life, daily routine, work etc. I suppose that you will have to get your son a baby sitter until he is old enough to go to kindergarten, don't worry life goes on and can only get better from this day forward. So look on the bright side side of life.