pushing away 35.4.6>2

[goddessliss]

Continuing the story of the truck driver............

Everytime it gets a bit 'touchy feely' it appears he pushes the potential relationship away.

I asked Why does he keep pushing a potential relationship with me away

35.4.6>2

I read a very interesting thread of 35.4 so it says to me that he has something hidden and if he reveals it to me I might run so why bother at all with a relationship.

Line 6 - he might regret starting a relationship with me, but why, what does that mean?

thks
Liss x

If I ask him anything he talks about his wanting to have children - but the way he speaks about having children is like they are a practical commodity to consider rather than the heartfelt desire to have them.

 

[elias]

Both changing lines in 35 speak to pushing too hard. Line 4's Supercilious Squirrel is altogether too busy finding reasons why things can't possibly work out, while at the same time trying way too hard to make things work out. There's a mixed message, and an inability for anyone to get comfortable.

Line 6: Progress with the horns -- the image says it all.

Hex 2: Bear with all things as Earth bears all who live upon Her.

Children: this may be some old bit of self-identification that hangs on long after its sell-by date. The more you (or anyone) pushes on this issue, the more tenaciously it is held. Do not add energy to this system.

 

[goddessliss]

Thks elias - sounds like I need to totally walk away.....AGAIN xx

 

[goddessliss]

Well - I just let go (as one should) and he contacted me last night, so we are going on a 'date' on Sunday.
So I asked - How will things evolve between he and I from here Hex 50.6>32

Now that looks a bit nicer. xx

 

[elias]

Thanks for the update! :->

 

[goddessliss]

Nother update and nother reading!

On Friday night he just got back from a 5 weeks of interstate driving and we met at his place for about an hour and he said something like 'I have had time to think about things and I like talking to you on the phone when I'm travelling, I enjoy your company when I'm home and I just like you so I would be crazy to not try and make a relationship with you. I think you would make me very happy. With these words I went home a pretty happy girl and then...........nothing. He has shown no interest in me since, what tha? Nope we didn't even go on our date.

Where will my rel with him go from here 15.3>62 Doesn't look bad but doesn't look like there is going to be much happening between us.

Would appreciate your interpretation/s. xx

 

[patro]

hello Melissa,

i think that the truck driver is taking passively the relation that he can get.
line 4, he know to be a person able to donate ccompletely his self to another.
line 5, he is also punishing his self by not cross a certain line-border, the one he had in mind... probably due past experience and the willing to avoid certain situations and errors.

 

[goddessliss]

Thks patro - which hexagram are you referring to here as I have 3 readings on this thread but none with line 5 xx

 

[patro]

referring to 35-> 2
i wrote erroneous the 5th instead the 6th

 

[goddessliss]

Ah thks patro well this line -
line 5, he is also punishing his self by not cross a certain line-border, the one he had in mind... probably due past experience and the willing to avoid certain situations and errors.[/I]

I wonder what border that was, guess I will never know cause 3 days later and he still has not contacted me. If anything untoward had happened to him I would know via mutual friends. xx

 

[patro]

I wonder what border that was, guess I will never know cause 3 days later and he still has not contacted me. If anything untoward had happened to him I would know via mutual friends. xx

the border still exist and will continue to be.
i think that have to do with his work, his past relations and experience.

 

[goddessliss]

That's a shame cause we are a pretty cool match xx

 

[goddessliss]

I had got in a much better 'head/heart' space about this non-relationship and I went around to see him to ask him to have a look at my broken down kombi as he had promised he would try and get it going so he is coming this morning to look at it.
We spoke about our non-relationship and he continues to make some sort of excuse why it wouldn't work which matches up with this original reading. It was a very civil conversation, as it should be, and we are staying in touch as friends.
However I am still keen on him, although I will step right back cause there is nothing worse than someone making advances towards you when you don't feel that way, so I did ask Yi just in case(oh God I am such a sad case lol)

How can I win his heart Hex 3.1>8 So from the threads it suggests perserverance through inaction and getting help - not sure how or who to get help from except maybe from Heaven.

What can I expect if I remain friends with him Hex 7.1.6>41

I read the overall picture as by remaining sincere and disciplined I may just get what I want in the end

thku if you would continue to help me in this process of relationships

Liss xx

 

[patro]

3-> 8
it's conducive to be steadfast.
use prudence, be quite, seek the help of a collaborative common friend.
it's also a question of the fleeting moment. the right one.

the good thing is that you got the first moving line... you can do nothing to change the situation, or you don't need to follow any advice... it will happen from alone, because it will be a natural reaction.

 

[goddessliss]

Ok sounds like basically do nothing and see what happens - thankyou Patro - don't really like seeking the assistance of others cause if I got something to say to him I just say it xx