Q

[rose]

I asked "I sincerely believe that P is not the one. What abt this?"

and got 19 (2)-->24

Im away frm home so do not have my text with me, I did the reading on the computer.

Im wondering if I shud interpret it as if P will be back in my life,or is it a return to myself?

With thanks

 

[willowfox]

If you mean by your question that you actually don't want P to be the one, then P is not the one, and therefore something new is coming up for you in the ensuing months.

 

[rose]

Thanks willowfox, gd to see u back.

By my question, I was asking to get a confirmation that he is not the one. Cos it's not that I dont like him to be the one. I dont know what he feels abt me. And sometimes Im a pessimist, so thinking that this is truly not meant to be, I asked...hoping that Yi wud tell me this is a flash in the pan or something.

 

[sophie]

I don't think the Yi is telling you that P is not the one - or indeed that he is the one. It's telling you to let things come naturally in your life and respond to them as they do - without prejudging them with either pessimism or optimism - and that this attitude will lead to a change in your life. It's also saying that everything you do with that attitude in mind is going to be beneficial for positive developments.

 

[rose]

Thanks Sophie Relationships and emotional investment are hard not to judge after some time has lapsed..I was seeking guidance to know if i shud let go of this before I allow my feelings get hurt..I'll keep ur words in mind.

 

[sophie]

I understand you - and I know the feeling! That's why the Yi is such a helpful friend when we need it - it gives us the detachment we lack in such matters!

 

[diamanda]

In my experience, this specific answer does not say if he is the one
or not, but it describes what 'the one' should behave like, ie how to
learn to recognise him. 19:2 speaks of a mutual approach, a mutual
commitment, the masculine taking heart-felt and sincere initiative
and both people equally drawn to one another. So, if the situation
already looks like this, then yes he's the one, if not, then look for
this situation elsewhere.

 

[ginnie]

I sincerely believe that P is not the one.

At the moment you wrote those words, you felt that you sincerely believed that P was not the one, and you had the thought of making decisions according to what you sincerely believed. Going by what you sincerely believe is a higher way of life than going by what P (or anybody else for that matter), thinks about you.

If we always went by what we sincerely believed, we would only rarely get into any trouble. The Yi can help us keep in touch with what we sincerely believe, because it always tells us the truth. I hate to say it, but our minds can get very foggy when it comes to the emotions.

 

[rose]

Gees guys ur the best! Thanks for ur insights, every word of it. It has shifted my thinking

 

[rose]

Im updating for the benefit of readers who trawl thru the threads to check out similar hexagrams and changing lines.

Update: He's married to someone else now. I lost interest in him after finding out he was seeing others.

rose

 

[willowfox]

I confirmed for you that he wasn't the one.