Question about a relationship - 8, then 58 changing to 51

[padma]

I asked about a relationship. In fact, I am living with a person since 6 years now, and we 've become kind of friends, as it has become dysfunctional. So I met another guy (we re dating about 4 months now), who says he loves me and wants to be with me. The thing is, he is about 15 years younger than me (I am 40), and a bit stuck with his parents.

So I got hexagram 8, asking "What is the proper way to handle this"? Then, prompted by the Oracle, I threw the coins again, and got 58 changing to 51 (lines 2 and 5 changing).
Any advice will be appreciated