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eden2011

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Hi,

Could anyone help me with some insight into the following:

I have a former teenage boyfriend I communicate with. Our friendship is very platonic. He is in a relationship and lives in another country. I used to hear from him quite often and sometimes over the phone. But now he seems to have kept correspondence only to birthdays/christmas and occasional emails or quick comments on facebook. I thought perhaps I had annoyed him, but cannot see how.

I asked what are his feelings towards me and I received:

The present is embodied in Hexagram 47 - K'un (Oppression): Despite exhaustion, there may yet be progress and success. For the firm and correct, the really great man, there will be good fortune. He will fall into no error. If he make speeches, his words cannot be made good.

The second line, undivided, shows its subject straightened amidst his wine and viands. There come to him the red knee-covers of the ruler. It will be well for him to maintain his sincerity, as in sacrificing. Active operations on his part will lead to evil, but he will be free from blame.

The future is embodied in Hexagram 45 - Ts'ui (Gathering Together): The king will repair to his ancestral temple. It will be advantageous to meet with the great man. Then there will be progress and success, though the advantage must come through firm correctness. The use of great victims will be conducive to good fortune, and in whatever direction movement is made, it will be advantageous.

Am really confused as I have received this hexagram twice. Does the first hexagram mean he is acting correctly because he is in a partnership i.e. restricted. But at some point we would meet for a social meeting i.e. the words gathering together. Any thoughts or suggestions?
 

dragona

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Hm, from what you wrote, I would think that he have placed his relationship with others above friendship with you. I can`t really understand which lines have changed - wines mentioned in 6th, knee bands in 5th..
but if it was 6th line that was changing, it may be that he feels bonds between you are weak or that he could remove obstacles he has met in order to reconnect with better quality.
 

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