Question about relationship 1.6 > 43

[watersprite2]

For those of you who aren't familiar with my previous posts - I've been seeing a man for a few months. Things progressed positively despite all odds and personal commitments.

Well, recently I almost had to cancel our evening because of my commitment to my son... But later on we met... he turned up super drunk and said he has to "let me go" because he "wants more" and doesn't want to be just some guy... Of course I was super upset because I thought he wanted to end it! Then he said he's happy to keep it going the way it has been.

After that night, he's been reluctant to talk about it. I do feel he has pulled back emotionally a bit and now I'm frustrated. We see each other regularly but there's something... Distant about him. He won't hug me tight like he used to etc. I feel so sad because I love him (though i feel too early to say it) and I'm craving closeness.

I asked the iching "will this relationship ever bring emotional satisfaction for us both?“

1.6 > 43

I take this to mean I'm expecting too much??

 

[hamster_twister]

I'm no experta but yes, for me its 'you're expecting too much, too soon'

 

[Mayorka]

Here is my experience with your answer.

My ex knew that I use iching for predicting the future or for taking decisions.
When our relationship was in a very difficult point, one day, he asked iching if we will break up and he received the answer 1.6>43. I told him that he will break up with me very soon and this is what really happened.

Hope it helps.

 

[ClavdiaChauchat]

For those of you who aren't familiar with my previous posts - I've been seeing a man for a few months. Things progressed positively despite all odds and personal commitments.

Well, recently I almost had to cancel our evening because of my commitment to my son... But later on we met... he turned up super drunk and said he has to "let me go" because he "wants more" and doesn't want to be just some guy... Of course I was super upset because I thought he wanted to end it! Then he said he's happy to keep it going the way it has been.

After that night, he's been reluctant to talk about it. I do feel he has pulled back emotionally a bit and now I'm frustrated. We see each other regularly but there's something... Distant about him. He won't hug me tight like he used to etc. I feel so sad because I love him (though i feel too early to say it) and I'm craving closeness.

I asked the iching "will this relationship ever bring emotional satisfaction for us both?“

1.6 > 43

I take this to mean I'm expecting too much??

Hi! I'll give a try, even though I didn't read your last posts.

The first hex is about beginning something. Everything is possibile. Everything can happen!

The line is extremely helpful: you both should not want to pull too much. He needs time and you too. You both have to stay in touch with the rhythm of the relationship. But apparently, you both want go forward. And this "too much" could become something exhausting (hex 43).

Just wait.

Clavdia

 

[watersprite2]

Hi! I'll give a try, even though I didn't read your last posts.

The first hex is about beginning something. Everything is possibile. Everything can happen!

The line is extremely helpful: you both should not want to pull too much. He needs time and you too. You both have to stay in touch with the rhythm of the relationship. But apparently, you both want go forward. And this "too much" could become something exhausting (hex 43).

Just wait.

Clavdia

I think this interpretation fits quite well with our situation. I think we both actually want more and are forced to take it slowly because of our circumstances (both having a kid from previous relationships etc.).... So yes, makes sense...

 

[watersprite2]

Here is my experience with your answer.

My ex knew that I use iching for predicting the future or for taking decisions.
When our relationship was in a very difficult point, one day, he asked iching if we will break up and he received the answer 1.6>43. I told him that he will break up with me very soon and this is what really happened.

Hope it helps.

Why did he break up with you?