Re: Life, Relationship Woes and Troubles.

[indra]

Re: Life, Relationship Woes and Troubles.

Well I've been married for almost a year and 6 months and there seems to be issues reagrding my lige in general and my marriage. If anyone can help me understand the significance of this I would be gratefull. My other half is not very happy with me and at time the thought of divorce does enter my mind, by accident I picked up a book and looked for guidance - by this I mean I hold a question in my mind and then see where my intuition leads me - the words said: don't bail out!.

But anyway, I asked the IChing for more guidance: Why am I having such problems in my life - from marriage through to jobs?

I receieved hexagrams 64.3/4 though I am not sure. Do you usually read a hexagram from bottom upwards then it is line 3. From top to bottom it is line 4. This is what confused me.

64.3 > 50

What does this mean? that I should go ahead with my concerns?

Thanks in advance

 

[pocossin]

I received hexagrams 64.3/4 though I am not sure. Do you usually read a hexagram from bottom upwards then it is line 3. From top to bottom it is line 4. This is what confused me.

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Hexagrams are constructed from the bottom upward. You received hexagram 64.3, and your description of the casting (64.3 > 50) is correct.

 

[pocossin]

Why am I having such problems in my life - from marriage through to jobs?
64.3 > 50

Old spirits need to pass so new ones can replace them. Attend to the details of social formalities. Set a formal table and arrange your home in a more formal manner. You are responsible for the atmosphere in the home, and a good atmosphere is a condition for a good relationship. When your husband comes into the room, acknowledge his presence by a greeting or by eye contact and a smile. It will make him want to be with you. Similar attention to detail is also important on a job. Being on time and timely performance are what work is about.