Reading help needed

[katenx]

I am in a new relationship where I wrote someone a letter but I haven't received an answer. I wrote asking to see him again. I wanted to know what's going on so I asked the Yi.

When I asked how he feels about seeing me again I got 30,5 to 13

When I asked where I stand with him I got 14,2 to 30

What I asked what he is doing with my letter I got 14,2,6 to 55

When I asked what his hopes are regarding me I got 22.4 to 30

When I asked what he feels for me I got 7 unchanging

When I asked what happens next I got 10 unchanging

Can someone please help me?

 

[jesed]

Hi Katenx

I think it's more usefully to ask one simple question... "how is my relationship with (...) right now?"


Best wishes

 

[yly2pg1]

Generally, the feeling for you is there.

Seems to me your friend has a hidden concern. Not a bad idea if you are able to find out.

 

[clarissa]

I'd be interested in anyone's understanding of 30.5 since I also received this line. For example how is the "lamenting" and "weeping" in 30.5 different than 45.6? I got 45.6 when I asked about my financial aid...because there was a slight problem and I thought I wouldn't receive it. I received 30.5 when I asked about something else...but I noticed that there was "lamenting" and "weeping" here as well. Bradford's translation makes it sound like more weeping is going on in 30.5 than 45.6.

 

[hilary]

I have the feeling that in 30.5 someone is lamenting over transience and feeling compassion. 45.6 may feel that the sacrifices of life are too much, and can also advise you to make an uninhibited noise about how you feel. I've seen 30.5 meaning 'you need to recognise things pass, and mourn' and 45.6 meaning 'you don't need to be ashamed of expressing your feelings'.

Katenx, I agree with Jesed that it's less confusing to ask a single, simple question. Looking at a series where you are asking - well - very closely related questions, if not quite the same ones, I would put most weight on the first one you asked.

I wonder whether he feels 30.5 about seeing you again because he is sure his 22.4 hopes are unrealistic. I hate to ask, but - is he involved with someone else?

 

[katenx]

Hilary,

I think he's very pessimistic about his chances for achieving love.

One more thing, I think the first question I asked was where I stand with him and I got 14,2 to 30.

Katen

 

[katenx]

Maybe I shouldn't be asking this now, two days later, but I did. When I asked "how is my relationship with (...) right now?" I got 13,1,4 to 53.