reading regarding a woman part 2

[alexb]

Hey folks,

I posted a few readings that I did a week and half or two ago, and you all gave very informative and educational analyses of my readings about a girl/woman/lady/female that I had been broken up with but thought there was something there. "Maybe we could get back together?" I thought...

Anyway, I hungout with her everyday this week, and it seems like we ARE getting back together. I asked the I-Ching this sole question tonight:

"Tell me the diagnosis of me and Her right now and into the future:"
58 no moving lines​

This seems good, possibly excellent. What more could I ask for? From Bradford_h's I-Ching:
Free, open up, clear out; barter, bargain, negotiate, weigh, exchange, pay, redeem,
Enjoyment, pleasure, happiness, delight, relish, relief, gratification, self-interest
Harvest, reaping rewards, fruits, gratification; incentives, persuasion, satisfaction
Hedonics, pursuit of pleasure and happiness as intrinsically benign and instructive
Encouragement, desire, attraction, welcome; charm, enchantment, bewitchment
Ananda, eros, cheer, epicurean hedonism, need/want as driving force in evolution

Any more tidbits from any of you I-Ching super geniuses?

All the Best :bows: ,

Alex

 

[willowfox]

"Tell me the diagnosis of me and Her right now and into the future:"
58 no moving lines


This hex is about communication and joy. Being open, talking, communicating.
It is also about joy that cannot be found externally you must seek it internally. You cannot chase after joy it is to be found within yourself. Therefore, you cannot depend on her to make you happy because this leads to anxiety and the fear of loss. Of course, if you are warm and friendly then she will respond to that.
So if you have joy in your heart and not thinking of the pleasure to be found in her company then all should go well. Pleasure and joy are very different, pleasure fades, joy doesn't. True joy comes from within. Find joy and you will then find enjoyment in communicating and sharing experiences with her.

 

[alexb]

Thanks for the added perspective Willowfox.

 

[autumn]

Since you specifically phrased this as a "diagnosis" question, it indicates the time of Joy is in the past. Several months in the past. I don't know as much about this method as Jesed, so maybe he has something else to add.