Reconnect or not

[Lodestar]

Best approach to an old connection who has ask to meet out of the blue..
33uc Retreat.

Emm well initially I was very hurt by her total lack of effort to ever meet me the times I needed connection.. Yet I had several dreams where she sought me out and there was a very good vibe between us.. I know sometimes people just have stuff going on in their life, but would be nice to be told it's not you that's the issue. Well I did just let it go, I felt sad but not angry. In fact it was one of my better moments of not being upset and allowing people freedom, without taking it too personally.

What is the energy here of her seeking to connect?
1.3-10

Would it be positive for me to allow this.. where would opening to the connection lead?
34.1.4-46

 

[Tim K]

I think 33 pretty much sets the tone for the whole situation.

Wilhelm:
Thus the superior man keeps the inferior man at a distance,
Not angrily but with reserve.

In 10 I see a hermit, a loner treading his usual path. And 46 carries a similar message of going higher, ascending from lowly activities/things, discarding the old habits.
I guess the answer is stay away, ignore the call. Or just politely decline.

Stick to your own path, 1.3 will create unnecessary drama.
Letting her in again will create some entanglement, 34.1 points to that while 34.4 advises against it.