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tien

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Considering rekindling a friendship with someone. I keep getting iching 17. Three of four months ago I got 49 >17 regarding our future.

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Should I email him? 58.2 >17

Should I reach out to him?: 17 ( no changing line)

Resending the birthday card? - I got the wrong address the first time and it came back to me :-( - 13.4 >37


Thank you so much!

T
 

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First, you are asking too many questions, and they are all basically the same question. So let's just go with hexagram 17.

For this I would have to assume you are a lady, and you are asking about a man. If that is not true let me know. I assume that because you are so locked into the answer. Or it could be same sex, but I assume the concern is a friendship wishing to become a relationship. The bottom trigram of hexagram 17 is chen which refers to an older (relatively speaking) male, and the upper is Tui which refers to a younger woman. The lower trigram puts itself below the upper trigram and supports it. In other words, there is nothing to fear from contact.

Now, why would you fear it anyway? Are you afraid of rejection? If so why? A man has to be extremely careful who he contacts because the results could be disastrous if he misreads the situation. The same is not true for a lady. She can safely approach pretty much anyone she wants to. If she is rejected, there still will not be any poison in the rejection. You are very free here to make a choice. Just overcome your fear of rejection. That is all. If you are male I would recommend informal and accidental meetings, and be very careful. You need to know for certain what is going on. This is not true for a lady. She is free to approach anyone.

And hexagram seventeen has a lot to do with choice. Confer lines two and three. But the judgment says, "Following has supreme success."

Something tells me that something has gone on before that makes you hesitant. That might be the real question. Why are you hesitating? What has happened between you. That is what needs to be resolved. By the way. 58.2 says, "sincere joyousness. Good fortune. So once again, what is causing you to hesitate?

Gene
 

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You're right! He is older, and I'm a lady :). He is in his 50's and I'm in my 30's. We were really good friends for years, then we dated on again and off again for a few years, then he got himself a girlfriend, and pretty much broke my heart. I miss him, and hoping that we can at least tried to be friends again, or at least exploring the possibility. He mentioned to our common friend that he would like to be friends with me again as well, but I just don't want to get hurt and get rejected again.


I did asked iching though about him and his girlfriend's relationship, icing said :33.3 ► 12


Anyways, thanks Gene so much for your help.
 

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that's the whole key. Is letting go of your fear of rejection.

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