relationship 63,5>36

[soragio]

Hi I would need some help with this new entry in my life, a boy I met a few times and we like each others but of course it is clear that I am the one more involved. He writes me lot, asks about my life, intimacy etc but I asked if he will be able to move to a rather virtual relationship to a more real one

36 is the way i am feeling now for sure

My doubts are about line 63,5: it speaks of sacrifice but in the Willhelm version I find it quite hard to understand, in some sites it is very negative in some others not so dark
any suggestion please? thanks

 

[diamanda]

I asked if he will be able to move to a rather virtual relationship to a more real one
63.5 > 36
Soragio sorry to say this but it doesn't look like it.
This combination says that the person could make a small honest sacrifice, but chooses not to do this.
They prefer to slaughter/kill the 'cow' instead, with the result being pain.

 

[soragio]

I asked if he will be able to move to a rather virtual relationship to a more real one
63.5 > 36
Soragio sorry to say this but it doesn't look like it.
This combination says that the person could make a small honest sacrifice, but chooses not to do this.
They prefer to slaughter/kill the 'cow' instead, with the result being pain.

Thanks for the answer

 

[bexytea]

36 is the way i am feeling now for sure

My doubts are about line 63,5: it speaks of sacrifice but in the Willhelm version I find it quite hard to understand, in some sites it is very negative in some others not so dark
any suggestion please? thanks

Hi soragio,

First, 63.5 is talking about effort. Sacrificing an ox, making an enormous, energetically expensive effort - compared to sacrificing something small, and timely. It means that one of you is giving too much, or expending more energy than what is needed.

Second, 36 does not necessarily only mean depression or sadness, or darkness. It can also refer to secrets, something hidden about the situation that you don't know about, as well as an inability to see clearly because of pre-existing beliefs that may be blocking your clarity. It's about brightness (or clarity) being obscured or blocked. It can also mean sleeping, and is a very positive result when you are treating someone for insomnia =)

When you put it together it sounds to me like what the Yi is telling you is to hang back a bit because you're not thinking clearly about the situation due to having been channelling all your energy into it. Chillax, babe. =)

Cheers,
Bexytea <3