Relationship 8 (cl 2,5) to 7

[rania]

Relationship

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[gene]

Hi rania

Is there a question here? If it is about a relationship, it sounds like a pretty nice answer. Not only do the two lines promise good fortune, but both lines are in their proper places and correspond with each other. Very good with a relationship question. I recently got hexagram 7 with lines 2 and 5 changing, leading to 8, which I also consider very positive in this respect.

Gene

 

[rania]

Thanks Gene, I tried to delete the message...

Things are tought - I did another reading today after the fight and I got 46 (changing line 4) >7. I keep getting 7 as a conclusion - what is this?

Anybody please? Really desperate

Many thanks
Rania

 

[rania]

Can I add that it has been a very difficult situation, mostly from my part, because I have these outbursts - this is what happened last time, bf was slowly more into the relationship, then I felt needy and started this war, that maybe the 7 is describing. But 46? We don't even talk properly right now...
Much appreciate any insight

 

[answeredquestions]

I keep getting 7 as a conclusion - what is this?

...It's seems as though your outcome is going to be the same.
Perhaps since it was a different day/time, you got different starting numbers.

Maybe 8 to 46 is representative of your frame of mind at the time.

Since both lead to the same path.

7 in speculation, to me says:
--7 says to have inner strength that is ready to use when the time is right. Although noow might not be the time, it will be there, like artillary. And like the water that is stored under the earth.
--Also, even though there might be something negative going on, keeping together on the outside helps. Descipline and obedience help.
How that fits with your relationship is not for me to interpret, but I can throw out a suggestion or two.

Maybe it is on your end, you need to be more attentive to the other person.
Maybe it is that you simply need to keep with and endure to have success with the other person.
Maybe it is about who wears the pants in the relationship. A struggle of that.

Just throwing stuff out there

 

[rania]

thank you so much...it does ring a bell yes. We work together and this is what I have to 'endure' in a way, although I am not sure if the right strategy is to seem cool and ok, or to show that I am sad (in a way, I think both would work)
I don't know how to say I am sorry without putting pressure (because I went back and forth). I really think I need 7's strategy because although I will apologise, I don't want to coerce this person into giving me another chance. I did started an apology but I don't want to harass with messages.
It has been him who is not attentive - on the other hand I have been nasty...

As for the pants, ok, it may be me, but this time it was him who wore them (maybe for the first time). But I would like him to wear them this time but to take a positive step...I am greedy I know.

What's 60? How is Limitation expressed in my situation? Is this the end? Or does it mean that we have to overcome the limitng factors between us??

 

[answeredquestions]

Hexagram 60? Did you get that one too?

If so, maybe it is saying, Limit yourself from asking too many questions. Stick to the ones you already got.

Know what I mean?

 

[rania]

Yes, I do do that...

Thanks so much, I know I am being silly.
the point is that maybe I shouldn't know what's going to happen, I have this control thing, not necessarily to control the other person, but because I come from a dysfunctional background so sometimes I rush to abandon someone first because I think they will do eventually (even if this hasn't crossed their minds).
Maybe the I tells me that it will all depend in how well I learned the lesson this time around...but I don't have much hope to be honest.

Thanks so much answeredquestions, you're very kind to reply so promptly.

 

[answeredquestions]

No problem rania. I hope you figure it all out.

 

[meng]

If 60 was a related reading, it may help to understand that 60 isn't just an eliminating function, it's really an organizing function, as in the holes of a flute, or a cabinet of drawers.

8 is a connecting principle, and that connection needs some organization of resources: 7. If you keep getting 7, it's a call to call up your skills and forces, united by 8. Rank and file are determined according to function and skill, which is part of 60's meaning.

It all has to do with "keeping it together", but it's up to you to determine what and what not to hold together with.

 

[rania]

Without any pressure I sent an explanation of my behaviour message, a very honest one, without agenda (the only agenda I had was to right some wrongs with regard to messages I sent about his behaviour) and I asked one last time how does he feel about what I said and I got 31 unchanging.

May I nag and ask what this means?
It's bizarre because I know it's over but today when we looked at each other, there was something there...I don't know what to make of this. I really need to let go for now, but this 31 really confused me now...

Thanks again

 

[answeredquestions]

maybe he thinks you are trying to persuade him back?
Since the question was, how does he feel about what you said.

 

[peterg]

What's 60? How is Limitation expressed in my situation? Is this the end? Or does it mean that we have to overcome the limitng factors between us??

H.60. Bitter language is not the way to go. Maybe the other party doesnt deserve that , or perhaps its just impolitic in the situation.

 

[rania]

I asked 'what else is there to come between N and me in this relationship?

I got 52 (changing line 2)>53.

Merci for any last insights
R

 

[Trojina]

I asked 'what else is there to come between N and me in this relationship?

I got 52 (changing line 2)>53.

Merci for any last insights
R

Frustration i think

 

[edge]

Hi Rania,
I think 52:2 changes to 18...
there's an interesting thread about it here: http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?t=6060

 

[rania]

Thanks Edge, really interesting about the rescue bit - it really hit home.

 

[rania]

Thanks to all very much - this relationship is now truly over.

Rania