Relationship - A future without a future! 16.1.2.3.4.6 > 26

[Thebelljar]

Hi members,

This is my first post and can I say what a great forum this is. I have been reading through the many posts and found the richness of information and contribution from members helpful. The heartfelt stories that people have to share are moving and you really feel what they are going through .

Background: Like so many of the posts on this forum, I too am struggling with a long term relationship and am going through a tough period in my life. We have broken up for a number of months and what I did was the cause. There is a lot of anger and hurt at the moment and I'm not sure where this leaves me.

Having made all of the mistakes in coming up with questions I then came up with some new ones (Hilary's suggestions).

http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/frie...42-Blog-post-Advice-for-relationship-readings

I asked some questions to give me some direction.

What sort of relationship can we create here?
16.1.2.3.4.6 > 26

The iChing seemed positive about the reading suggesting that a great harvest can be achieved however humbleness must be maintained. Is it hinting at the strength in the future?

What do I need to understand about X?
17
Feedback I got was: When one is humbled and full of delight, surely people will come to follow. Thus, after Delight comes Following.

What is the possibility of patching things up?
56
From the reading it seems inconclusive and the focus is more on steadfast and upright.

As you can imagine I feel a little lost at sea at the moment and so if anyone has compass that they can lend me, no matter what direction it points in, it would make me very happy.

 

[Thebelljar]

I woke up today and thought I needed to look at my situation differently. I'm trying to feel my way around the problem, something I've never done before. So I asked some different questions...

What is my relationship with X? 40.1 > 54
I think that at the moment it's saying I or both of us are going through hardship and it doesn't feel like there's an end to this at the moment. But after this relief will follow. The changing line means that in making that transition no blame should be placed at either person.

I'm unsure how to interpret 54.

How best to approach relationship with X? 23.5 > 20
That I need to be small at the moment and have patience. That the relationship is falling away and will be replaced by something new.


I think, that when you look at both, I'm being told that things are over and I am being guided on the best way to end things. Any advice that you can give would be really welcome.