Relationship cont.quest of Song 19.1.4 < 40

[anon]

I really appreciate any help with this reading. I asked......

"How can I get him to get close to me again and give this relationship a try?"

I received hexagram 19.1.4 < 40.

I am very thankful for your help! ~ This relationship although extremely complex was very beautiful. To tell you the honest truth I don't even know why it ended so abruptly since he seemed way more into it than I was. The strangest thing is that it being over as he dissapeared frommy life. I found on his website a song that completely described our situation and by doing some work I fou d out that ge wrote it to me. So I lknow he is hurting if not as much maybe even more than I am. But why did leave then? Humm

so I asked "why did he leave our relationship?" or why did he break our secret bond as he mentions on the song! Hugh! I don't understand men! =)

hexagram 5.1 < 48

 

[willowfox]

"How can I get him to get close to me again and give this relationship a try?"

I received hexagram 19.1.4 > 40.

I asked "why did he leave our relationship?" or why did he break our secret bond as he mentions on the song!
hexagram 5.1 < 48

You need to contact him or at least leave hints for him to see that you are still out there and waiting for a response, that you forgive him for what he did, therefore if you can't let go then shout.

It seems that he was just not ready to take on a fully committed relationship, the need to be unattached was more important and thus the connection broke.

 

[anon]

Update: turns out this person does not want a relationship with me.