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mc123

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Hi all - I recently split from my long term gf and asked the iching if there was a way to get back with her. I was given 9 > 57 which seemed to imply gentle persistence to achieve this. Since then we've kinda been hanging out, chatting, emailing and I asked the iching again (just to check) if this was the right approach.

This time I was given 25 > 20 which I take to mean that it is, but that I shouldn't be consumed with this as a whole and should enjoy my life while keeping it in mind.

Thoughts?
 

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I should also point out that I have been (inwardly) panicking at the thought of her moving on or starting to ignore me as time goes by (the iching's slow approach goes against my kneejerk reaction to try to fix things!) so this might be its way of telling me to calm down and let things happen....?
 

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Hi. Hmm, I looked at the hexes and it seems like you are spot on in your interpretations. Just remember that winning her back is not guaranteed. I think the I-ching is merely advising you on the best way to do it to have the best chance. Though the lines seem pretty positive. :)

I understand about feeling impatient and wanting to deal with the problem more head on. I am in a similar situation except my long term boyfriend hasn't broken up with me. However, I am sensing a lot of change between us and fear our relationship is heading there. Now I'm in a delicate situation where I want to be proactive in fixing things but the I-ching advices me that the best way to go about it is without adding any pressure. More of a quiet change in myself.

By the way, would it be okay if I PMed you about my own issue please? I could really use a guy's perspective!
 

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Thanks Cathalina, and yes go for it - happy to help.
 

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