Relationship Help!!

[littlemeowie]

Dear all,


Would appreciate help interpreting these readings! My relationship with my best friend has turned romantic however, there is a third wheel involved. He is now unable to make a decision and for this casting, I asked when will he come back to me as my SO? I've got hex56.2 changing to hex50. I really really love him and would like for to be a happy couple again.

I understand that hex56 might be telling of a period of indecision(on his part?) however I'm not entirely sure what hex50 would mean. Please help!! This issue has been rather stressful for me ;'(


Much thanks all!! :bows::bows:

 

[elias]

I asked when will he come back to me as my SO?

Unfortunately, this is not a well-framed question on several counts... you are presupposing that he will come back to you, and you're asking IC to predict the future.

That being said 56 generally speaks of one moving through a situation -- this is not your "home" and you are, as the saying goes, dependent on the kindness of strangers. One one hand, you have more freedom than you would have in a more socially-constructed circumstance; on the other, you have little recourse to social networks should you land in difficulty.

Line 2 suggests that you do attract useful help and allies in this strange place.

Hex 50 suggests that both you and your companion(s) are all in this together and the changes underway will for the better. Though what "better" means may not be what you expect...

 

[littlemeowie]

Thank you. We are currently in a conflict and I think my main idea is to ask the Yi when will this crisis pass on and normalcy restored to my relationship with my best friend.

 

[chingching]

I think 56.2 > 50 says and reassures you that you have a good friend. And 50 reassures that the friendship or whatever-ship is of the highest quality. In the fan yao it say it contents arent spoiled. 56.2 is about having a boy servant, go read the memorizing thread on 56, although the posts meander quite a bit in this thread (true to its name I guess) there is a lot of helpful thoughts/knowledge on 56.2 in it.