Relationship! Hexagram

[ambika]

My question was will X marry me this year?
and I got:

Cast Hexagram:

All Lines are Changing!!!
Read only the Transformed Hexagram.

Transformed Hexagram:

53 - Fifty-Three

to give you the background. Its been four years he keeps going back and forth commits and then disappears and then comes back. I love him to bits please advise.

 

[ambika]

any one ?

 

[elias]

The customary way to post your responses would (in this case) be

54.1.2.3.4.5.6 > 53

If you want a yes-no answer, it's much easier just to flip a coin ;-> Approach the IC as a teaching tool about self-discovery (rather than a fortune-telling device) and it will begin to make more sense.

A very interesting reading, as these two make up a mirror image of one another. 54 "The Marrying Maiden" speaks of impatience and forcing issues before their time. Individual lines speak of the different mistakes and problems that emerge when you rush into matters. In the fifth line, the woman, who has waited past what everyone considers an appropriate age for marriage, finally arrives at happiness with a suitable partner.

53 -- what is quickly growing out of your present circumstance -- is the recognition that slow progress endures. This is about you, not necessarily about your relationship (though the hexagrams both speak to marriage.) Though perhaps it doesn't feel like it, you are becoming a stronger person with a clearer perspective on this relationship; better able to judge whether it's worth waiting around for this man to make up his mind vs going your own way in the world.

 

[ambika]

Thankyou for guiding me. I'll post the responses in the proper way next time.
thanks it really means a lot!

ummm actually i didnt get 54 it was just 53 with all lines changing. so i am a little confused.

 

[elias]

Argh-- I hate when I do that... Actually, it makes more sense now... Interpretations listed above are still valid...

54 (Marrying Maiden) still dominates -- you've left (or are soon leaving) 53 "Gradual Process" and are into 54 -- from slow steady growth into a place of impatience and the mis-steps that come when wanting takes over...

 

[ambika]

i am still confused though...

so he is not going to marry me ???

 

[Olga Super Star]

Well you tell us whether you married him.

 

[Trojina]

This person was last here in 2011, you can see that by clicking the name !

Click the Name and you will See When the person was last here.

I can't see what is so hard about looking to see when the person was last here


This thread is 9 years old !

The query of the querent thread is 9 years old, I mean others will start answering as if the thread is current but it isn't

They might answer it just seems unlikely if they haven't been here since May 2011.