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Hello Everyone :

I've been friends with a man for about a year now. I met him through my cousin. He lives and works abroad and we cannot date at the moment. Things went in quite a different direction (positive) after I expressed to him that I would like to find someone to have a long term committed relationship. I told him he would have been a good candidate if he wasn't long distance and I would have dated him. He gave me a great response. He made plans to meet with me when I go to Greece. We discussed the practical and financial aspects and we discovered that we can both make it happen. He is a famous jazz musician composer and tours internationally.

I asked what kind of relationship can I hope to develop between me and R?

Hexagram 43 line 1 and 4 into Hexagram 48 turned up.

48 is funny for me. The part with the bucket leaking and the rope breaking is not positive for me.
 

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Hexagram 43.1.4 to 48

出生时间:年 性别:女 起卦方式:直接指定
起卦时间:2014年03月01日05时24分
起卦农历:甲午年二月初一日卯时
立春:2014年02月04日06时21分   
惊蛰:2014年03月06日00时07分 
神煞:天乙—寅午 福星—巳 日禄—酉 羊刃—申 驿马—巳 桃花—子 华盖—未
干支:甲午年 丙寅月 辛未日 辛卯时
旬空:辰巳  戌亥  戌亥  午未

六神  伏神    坤宫:泽天夬          震宫:水风井
         【本 卦】           【变 卦】
滕蛇       ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟丁未土     ▅▅ ▅▅ 妻财戊子水  
勾陈       ▅▅▅▅▅ 子孙丁酉金 世   ▅▅▅▅▅ 兄弟戊戌土 世
朱雀       ▅▅▅▅▅ 妻财丁亥水  ○→ ▅▅ ▅▅ 子孙戊申金  
青龙       ▅▅▅▅▅ 兄弟甲辰土     ▅▅▅▅▅ 子孙辛酉金  
玄武 父母乙巳火 ▅▅▅▅▅ 官鬼甲寅木 应   ▅▅▅▅▅ 妻财辛亥水 应
白虎       ▅▅▅▅▅ 妻财甲子水  ○→ ▅▅ ▅▅ 兄弟辛丑土  

This relationship will not result in marriage because the parent line does not appear in the change hexagram 48. It is a hidden line under line 2. This hidden line 2 is si fire (movement star also empty element under the year). He is not attached at present.

Line 1 shows a change line. The wife line female changes to hope to merge with the third party (man), but hi is chou earth, which is the confronting element under the house of spouse wei earth (day of the reading).

Line 4 is another female hai water who is the empty element under the house of marriage and spouse. I do not know who this person is (an ex??).

It changes to a child line shen metal that confronts with the house of marriage yin wood. Technically, this seems to be the show stopper.

Both of you (line 4 hai water with concern over another female; and him yin wood with concern over career) are yang lines. Yang line means confronting view without a compromise.

48.6 is you and the candidate to be husband (officer line) is also missing in hexagram 48. Line 48.6 means you are far away. Thus there is no long prospect for an actul ever after union.
Hexagram 48 change lines
Six at the beginning means:
One does not drink the mud of the well.
No animals come to an old well.

If a man wanders around in swampy lowlands, his life is submerged in mud. Such a man loses all significance for mankind. He who throws himself away is no longer sought out by others. In the end no one troubles about him any more.

Six in the fourth place means:
The well is being lined. No blame.

True, if a well is being lined with stone, it cannot be used while the work is going on. But the work is not in vain; the result is that the water stays clear. In life also there are times when a man must put himself in order. During such a time he can do nothing for others, but his work is nonetheless valuable, because by enhancing his powers and abilities through inner development, he can accomplish all the more later on.

Note: The man has his own problem. He is not ready for a committed relationship.

Hexagram 43 change lines
Nine at the beginning means:
Mighty in the forward-striding toes.
When one goes and is not equal to the task,
One makes a mistake.

In times of resolute advance, the beginning is especially difficult. We feel inspired to press forward but resistance is still strong; therefore we ought to gauge our own strength and venture only so far as we can go with certainty of success. To plunge blindly ahead is wrong, because it is precisely at the beginning that an unexpected setback can have the most disastrous results.

Notebook: Setback is expected. No gain.

Nine in the fourth place means:
There is no skin on his thighs,
And walking comes hard.
If a man were to let himself be led like a sheep,
Remorse would disappear.
But if these words are heard
They will not be believed.

Here a man is suffering from inner restlessness and cannot abide in his place. He would like to push forward under any circumstances, but encounters insuperable obstacles. Thus his situation entails an inner conflict. This is due to the obstinacy with which he seeks to enforce his will. If he would desist
from this obstinacy, everything would go well. But this advice, like so much other good counsel, will be ignored. For obstinacy makes a man unable to hear, for all that he has ears.

Note: No deal at the end.
Hexagram 48 = 9 0f cups

About him:

We must also look at the possibility with the Nine of Cups in a Relationship Reading that the Figure in this Card sits alone because he is happy to be alone. He may be very content with the way things are and is not in a rush at present to get involved in any relationship. He may be working on his career or choosing to stay single after leaving an earlier relationship.

About you
You may have found your Soul Mate and understand for the first time the beauty of a good relationship. You are certainly happy with the way things have worked out for you on a romantic level. You may have eventually won the heart of the one you wooed for so long. There is a great sense of knowing that it has been well worth the wait. There is a true understanding of what it is you want in a relationship and what or who will make you happy.

Conclusion
You have sort yourself out, but you have not sorted him out. You know what you want, but he is not ready for anything.

It will be an uphill battle for you because I do not think that you plan to resettle in Greece.

The National Bank of Greece SA (NBG)' s share drops 2.24% on Friday, while all Canadian Banks have recorded profits. Canada is a stable country. The land of opportunity in America applies to all those who know how to use the system and information to build a good future.

Take a step back and lower your expectations towards this individual. This way, there will be no regrets when you come back here.

Please note that the day of the reading is very important for relationship analysis. If you read only the text and six lines without the day (time domain) of a relationship reading, you will hear what you want to hear. Please remember this advice when you learn Iching.

:bows: I should have started a fortune match business to help others. For individuals seeking a partner, the birthday and hour of birth are critical in both Asian and Western Astrology analysis. If it is a good match, there is wealth and happiness in the union. If it is a bad match, one party may be bankrupted and leaving the other party struggling.

:) Iching reading only tells whether you have a chance with the other individual and his situation Vs yours (perhaps). Only Tarot cards will teach how he thinks of you, and then birthday analysis tells both parties are good match, average match or formula for future unhappiness or separation.
 

cornucopia63

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Thank you Long yi!

The reading is acccurate. Amazing.

About him:

We must also look at the possibility with the Nine of Cups in a Relationship Reading that the Figure in this Card sits alone because he is happy to be alone. He may be very content with the way things are and is not in a rush at present to get involved in any relationship. He may be working on his career or choosing to stay single after leaving an earlier relationship.

There is no plans for us to ever live in Greece only vacation there.

He is divorced and his ex wife is Korean who also lives in Seoul. He has a daughter who he has sent to live in America. He is American. Seoul is not his country and he is not a citizen there so I don't see him living there forever.

It's true about him not being ready for a relationship this year. He is fully committed to his career at this time. I noticed he doesn't seem to have no stability in his life and I don't like that.

In Chinese astrology he is a dog and I'm a water rabbit.
 
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