Relationship outlook for 2014

[cornucopia63]

I wanted to know what my outlook this year is for a committed relationship.

What is the outlook for me of finding a man for a committed relationship this year?

Hexagram 36 line 2 changing into hexagram 11

If you see this Long Yi I'd really appreciate your valuable analysis :bows:

 

[goddessliss]

Hi Cornucopia63
I would like to help you here as you have helped me so many times in the past but alas I'm finding this reading a bit difficult to interpret as I'm not as clued into it as much as some other talents on here but I will tell you what I am seeing
I would say you're not going to find that elusive man this year even though I think you are ready. Perhaps you need help in bringing out the best in yourself at this time and until you do that - you can't be seen so to speak. - Liss

 

[goddessliss]

hmmm I think you are a different cornucopia but no matter I like to help if I can - Liss

 

[cornucopia63]

Hi there how are you? I'm the same

I have hexagram 11 as very positive in term of a more harmonious time for relationships coming up around Feb/Mar.

hmmm I think you are a different cornucopia but no matter I like to help if I can - Liss

 

[goddessliss]

Fair enough but where then does Hex 36 come into it? Have you met someone that suggests there may be a long term commitment as we only have about a week left of March? - Liss

 

[cornucopia63]

Hello. Yes I had met sb but ended it today! He really wanted me. He had an abusive personality. He had issues and emotional baggage from previous failed relationships and a failed marriage.

But I asked this today as a general reading so it should not have anything to do with him.

I also sent you my take on your post btw on Hexagram 14 and 22. Cheers!

 

[goddessliss]

Well I still feel the same but perhaps it's you who's a light for others - my personal experience is that men, as you've described your bf and many who I've been involved with who are the same, see us as their 'ight' in their own adversity. February/March - perhaps you are removing this 'obstacle' so that a healthy, long term relationship can come. - Liss

 

[cornucopia63]

Thanks Liss! "February/March - perhaps you are removing this 'obstacle' so that a healthy, long term relationship can come."

That really resonated with my frame of mind at this point in my life concerning relationships. If I don't see a future I don't waste my time. I analyse the man's actions and words now. I contemplate and watch (HEX 20 WHICH IS IN ANOTHER POST ON MARRIAGE PROSPECTS ON HERE ANALYZED BY LONG YI) to see if he satisfies me or if he's willing to figure out how to make me happy then I'll know if the guy I'm dating is capable of giving me what I want long term.

This is stuff I never used to do in the past. Now I have a strategy whereas in the past I went with the flow. If I want to find the right life partner for me I need a strategy and then I'll know if he's the right one because many many men also lie about their single status

 

[goddessliss]

well now that's exactly what I'm like too - which leaves me with not interacting with any man in terms of potential relationship possibility - lol

 

[cornucopia63]

Your relating hexagram 22 reading suggests that it's favorable to have a small affair at this time as a step towards happiness and fulfilment and well later you never know

 

[goddessliss]

How delightful that would be but alas nothing but old retired fishermen around here!