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Relationship potential 9.2>37?

bluelight

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Hi, I recently reconnected with a guy I met before. We met once and it was all great, but communication leading up to it was weird, and after also I didn't hear much from him. He also hesitated to meet with me but still did. I personally really enjoyed spending time with him, and this inconsistency bugged me.

So I casted iching on the advice for me on the current situation
19.6>41 line 6 "Greathearted approach. Good fortune. No blame."
Relationship potential 9.2>37 line 2 "He allows himself to be drawn into returning. Good fortune.'
If I could/how to improve the situation 37.6>64
Line 6. "Legge: The sixth line, dynamic, shows its subject possessed of sincerity and arrayed in majesty. In the end there will be good fortune.
Wilhelm/Baynes: His work commands respect. In the end good fortune comes."

I casted a few more questions, interestingly enough I would get repeated hexes, 37, 41, 63/64, 7. At first, I was baffled because I'm used to men aggressively approaching me or taking a lot of interest. Intuitively, I feel there is something more to come (and the hexes say so), overall I don't get a good vibe. I guess here there is Decrease and Restraint, something short-lived? Either way, I don't enjoy being treated like that. I'd like to see if there is any more insight into these castings?
 
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diamanda

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Your gut instinct is right, the vibe is not good and that's not a nice way to be treated.

advice for me on the current situation 19.6 > 41
If you ask him for committment, he'll disappear.

relationship potential 9.2 > 37

His wife will draw him back into their family.

if I could/how to improve the situation 37.6 > 64

Become dominant and demand that he gets a divorce..? Or his wife is dominant and the situation between you and this guy won't continue.
 

bluelight

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There is no wife...? He's single and alone based on his stories but I didn't go question the details.
I would've been ok with something casual but it still needs some good energy.
 
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diamanda

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The casts show he's married (or at least has a long-term partner). Also, this is textbook behaviour of married men who cheat: they don't openly make moves, so that the woman is forced to take the initiative, so that they can say in the end "it wasn't my fault, she persisted".
 

bluelight

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Wow he's young! And he seems to be looking for a relationship based on his profile. I don't rule out if he's in some sort of relationship but he checked if I am not in one myself?

that the woman is forced to take the initiative so that they can say in the end "it wasn't my fault, she persisted"
Yep getting some of that, but guess he can have reasons to doubt or not be so interested?
 
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diamanda

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He shows doubt, disinterest, inconsistency. And he's already causing you self-doubt and almost loss of self-esteem.

He must have reasons to do all this indeed, question is do you feel it's beneficial for you to persist with someone behaving like this to you? As you say, even if it's casual, it should feel good.
 

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