relationship ques

[capri]

we are again having troubles in our marriage and it is more of me not happy with the way the things are. Basically I am the one who is the unhappier one i.e i just feel he has not changed and he will always be the same way( though he has changed a few things and that is more related to his taunting me on a few matters, that has stopped and also helping out more at home)

but i do not think he cares, today i was not feeling well and i called him back from the gym and not once he came and asked how i was feeling and it got me thinking that he never does that !! i will be lying in the room sick and not once he will ask me how i was feeling, if i need anything or even come to look at me. if i ask him to do something ofcourse he does that but never on his own initiative.

i asked him and he got angry and said that i am always ill and i am jealous of him going to the gym and called him back. btw he is also laid off.


i asked yi to tell me what to do about him stay with him or leave him ..i got 18.4.5 changing to 44

look forward to your insights!!

 

[willowfox]

I remember doing quite a few readings for you last year and they all warned you that you should not have let him back into your life. All you have got from him are a few cosmetic changes but the core remains the same. I said that if he returns you will regret your weakness in giving into him. You said later, "I want to give him another chance as he said that he will really change", so you let him re enter your life, so silly.

Look at line 18.4 problems from the past coming back to haunt you again, and you are just letting him get away with it.

Line 18.5 says that you have to sort this situation out, as he is reverting slowly but surely to his old behaviour but I think you need someone to help you this time as you don't have the fortitude to say much to him, you seem to be rather weak willed and that will cause no end of pain and suffering unless you get tough this time around.

Hex 44 This guy is just too much for you, run away, it is your best option if you want happiness and peace of mind.