relationship question, 4.5 to 59

[bamagirl]

Hi. I received some help/thoughts/input from you guys and did as you suggested. Z and I spoke today and it went well, actually very well. I finally have some peace. I also got three new books on the I Ching to read and study this week. I am excited.

So I decided to ask my new favorite friend, lol, "What actions are required now for me to advance my relationship with Z?"
And I got hexagram 4(inexperience), line 5, changing to hexagram 59 (reuniting)... This is good, yes?

Any thoughts, are as always, very much appreciated
Thank you!!

 

[alyce21]

I think 4.5 is just saying that you need to relax and take an innocent attitude towards things. You don't have to really 'do' anything as such, or you don't have to try so hard. Be willing to let things just happen without overanalysing them. Sometimes the less you think about things and the less you know about where things are heading the better. Be open to whatever is coming and trust the advice you've been given before and your own intuition about what to do and you should be fine. Sometimes taking that kind of attitude allows things to come to you in a serendipitous way.

 

[patro]

4.5-> 59
the image of this answer is positive!
you need help and advice. you need advice from some one that could help you, to understand the step to do. in this situation your mom could be the a good teacher.

anyway the IC is saying that you are a person that want to be advice and is willing to learn. An inexperienced... that is looking for teaching with an unpretentious child mood......... performs well.

hope to help.

 

[gene]

Hi Brand...

Line five speaks of gentleness and devotion. It also speaks of the capacity to listen. It would be best to not take any attitude of inate superiority over your friend or whomever, but be willing to cooperate in a spirit of harmony as much as possible without sacrificing any self dignity.

Gene