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I asked the Yi, "Can you comment on whether A and B's "prediction" or foreseeing is influencing how things are now?"
I received 54 unchanging.
I then asked, "What is the best way for me to get over this situation of hex 54?"
I received hex 1.5.6 changing to 34.
Regarding 54, I am wondering if the "second wife" situation is relating to the fact that I am living in the house my partner lived in with his previous partner, or whether it is a reference to the fact that I feel somewhat pushed aside by the prediction, made hopeless in some way.
I'm really not sure what to make of 1.5.6 > 34. I'm not sure whether 34 is talking about the foundations of the relationship being good and to put aside the shadow of these prognosications, or something else.
Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
But their predictions were about the relationship, not your health. You had health problems before you ever met your partner, then it got a bit better for a while, and now it's getting worse again...it could reasonably be that neither the prediction nor your partner has much control over that. It might simply be that your health will go up and down over time regardless of anything else - some conditions are like that, I think?Their predictions have turned out to be true in some ways, as my health has indicated.
You don't like being dependent on your partner (which, again, is understandable), but you didn't say how he's been with the situation. Has he been supportive? Is he good to you? How has your relationship actually been over the past several years, regardless of any predictions? You didn't say your relationship is actually bad, just that other people said years ago it would be, and also that you hate being dependent on him (or anyone). Those are all different things, I think.
I have no guesses what line 5 might be telling you.
I mean 1>34 Heaven's Great Power, gives me the sense of a will (34) that can harness and ride the dynamic power of heaven (hex 1).
Poor health can cast a pall over everything.
I had an awful childhood, and whenever I am in a relationship I feel like this big black cloud is triggered, and follows me around everywhere. For someone who is pretty insightful about herself, to have this kind of unintegrated ... blob hanging around is horrid. And scary. I'm aware of it enough to know it's there, not aware of it enough to be able to work with it in a fashion that heals anything. I think it's this which makes me feel so paranoid and start feeling like when I'm in a relationship I want to run away. All that childhood powerlessness, day after day.
You described really well the helplessness I feel about my health. I guess that's why I link health with relationship, because my health first went downhill just after I was married, and then improved somewhat when I left my husband and lived alone for three years before I got involved in another relationship. I was very worried that the same thing would happen
My partner has been great with this situation. Like, seriously, I have never met anyone so accommodating and patient. He is very good to me, as much as he can be with his own problems and ... well, non-femaleness. Some days I struggle with men, with how they think, with their lack of receptivity and desire for cohesion in the way they speak. If you know what I mean. Men have always felt scary to me, because my Dad felt scary to me, and other males in my life have done me harm. So I guess some reptilian part of me equates men with bad, even though my partner is not bad.
These days relationships are exalted to almost a religion...as if the holy grail of happiness and fulfillment....which they manifestly are not.
Susie there are interesting issues in this thread......but first someone just updated their thread where they had this exact cast for a different question. It looks as if it all turned out very favourably.
Here it is http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?18787-Positive-response-for-artwork-1-5-6-34
It is great when people are thoughtful enough to give the outcomes of the situations they asked about. It helps us all learn more and so is a valuable contribution to the forum.
I understood what you said. What i had in mind was also researches about been a singleton and there too i see the same pattern: being a singleton is the way to be happy. It creates also expectations �xpectationxxxp
And believe me, my partner is SO giving of space - indeed, sometimes he gives me so much space that I am almost insulted by it. For example, when I was talking about wishing to live in another country but having no money and feeling trapped, he said that he didn't wish to do so at this time but if I did, he would give me the money to go. He is even more unwilling to impose on other people for his own benefit than I am
No, not derailing at all! Please, continue if you've got more to discuss.
LOL I know what you mean...a bit of jealousy or possessiveness can be reassuring. It sounds as if you find him almost too disengaged, remote. Kind and good but perhaps just distant.
1.5 = the present. things that vibrate together seek each other. Like attracts like. This is the line representing the "universal law of attraction". But notice there is no mention of good fortune or misfortune. It just is.
I came across this video http://www.ted.com/talks/angela_lee_duckworth_the_key_to_success_grit today and reminded me of this thread as i could see both hex 54 and 1> 34 of combo . The speaker defines grit as perseverance and passion for longterm goals.
Here is a relevant article : http://www.forbes.com/sites/margare...hat-it-is-why-you-need-it-and-do-you-have-it/
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