relationship question...please help!

[sparkler]

Hi all...have taken miakodas advice on my other thread and asked the I Ching jeseds relationship questions...hope someone can help...

General diagnosis of relationship...answer hexagram 19 no moving lines

What is my partners position in relationship?...answer hexagram 48 line 3 becoming hexagram 29

What is my position in the relationship?...answer hexagram 52 lines 3 and 6 becoming hexagram 2

What action can I take in this relationship?...answer hexagram 35 no moving lines


Can anyone help with this?...thanks so much, sparkler

 

[dmar9]

OK

General Diagnosis 19 Unchanging
No one is breaking up with anyone or anything at the moment. Rather the relationship is in the process of running it's natural course, whatever that may be. As the triagram says spring now, autmn later. It's up to the relationship to last through all seasons based on its merits and strengths.

Partners Position 48.3 changing to 29
Yor partner hs something to offer that is not being utilized or appreciated. They have knowledge, talent, ability or something that your are not aware of. You need to become aware of it or the externals to the relatiosnship which are always there will start to play a bigger part....

Your Position 52.3&6 changing to 2
You want more than what your getting. More physical contact and more reassurance from the other. Maybe somehow your not being open enough to get what you want? Possibly some 'closeness' is not achieved in order to get what you want? Maybe you just need to somehow be calmer and tune in to the other and out of the "Monkey mind' more. I don't know as you will have to work this out for youself based on what you know.

What action can be taken 35 unchanging
This is great, you CAN do lots of very positive actions. You will get plenty of opportunity to do so, cherish it.

 

[jesed]

Hi

Just in case the comment could be useful

19 is starting now; so, this is a portential for a new relationship. This is a time of oportunities... but only if you seize them.


He wants to go deeper, but somehow fears not to be well apreciated
You seem to want stability, and remain stick in the present


That combination is not the best one... you both could wait long before take a decisive step and miss the oportunity

Now.. hex 35 is about progression BY cooperation. Trust, sincerity and mutual support. Does that ring any bell?

Best wishes

 

[willowfox]

"General diagnosis of relationship...answer hexagram 19 no moving lines"

Hex 19 two people advancing together, the relationship should blossom and grow. There are still problems to be ironed out but all should go well at the present time and immediate future.

"What is my partners position in relationship?...answer hexagram 48 line 3 becoming hexagram 29"

Hex 48.3 your friend is not committing himself to this relationship 100%, he is holding back.

Hex 29 he sees problems in the relationship, but he must accept this relationship as it is and be prepared to walk on the wild side, then he can find success here.

"What is my position in the relationship?...answer hexagram 52 lines 3 and 6 becoming hexagram 2"

Hex 52.3 says that you must still your emotions, don't get so uptight, just relax and take life as it comes.

Hex 52.6 finding peace and relaxing will prove to be very beneficial for you.

Hex 2 is telling you to take a passive role, don't try to put pressure or force your friend to do anything, be a follower.

"What action can I take in this relationship?...answer hexagram 35 no moving lines"

Hex 35 says best for you to remain on the sidelines and not try to influence or push him, that way you will earn the affection of your friend and progress can be made.

 

[miakoda]

Sparkler-

I don't know what has happened between your posting of this, but I'll throw in my take on it, even if it might be out of date!

Gen. Diagnosis: 19. This is the nearing of a relationship.

His position: 48.3>29 You are the well, the source, but this is the sorrow of the ability to love unused, leading into difficulties (29).

Your position: 52.3.6>2. Karcher says: binding yourself through restraining your loins. Adversity smothers the heart. You get that one, don't you? Also, there is fullness and generosity in being present and still. This leads to pure Yin, the earth, a very receptive place.

What to do? Move ahead, prosper 35.

But you probably figured all this out a long time ago!

Miakoda