relationship question, what is possible between us?63 unchanging

[Freya D]

Hi there

It is possibly wishful thinking, we broke up to work on ourselfs separately..

I asked how should I relate to him and got 61, 1. 4 wich is totally accurate as I am way to dependent on him.

There is so much love between us that I hope this time appart will make a fresh start possible.

hex 63 seems to say that is has ended or is there another way to read it? What is youre experience with this hex?

Thank you!:bows:

 

[steve]

Hi

My experience with 63 unchanging is that things are in there place for now and you need to maintain that position for now. Something has completed or a phase, no it doesnt mean its final, just try and accept the facts as they are for now, as you said a break might do you good but you need to get on with the situation as it is. Dont go overboard or get too emotional just except it for now until something changes.

Maybe see friends and start doing something you may not usually do, like call and old friend say I just had a break up do you want to catch up for a meal

Hope this helps

 

[Freya D]

Thanks Steve, Ill take youre advise and go out of my comfortzone more often

I find it hard to not be "waiting". Waiting is not accepting where I am.Not getting too emotional and feeling lost is exactly what I have to practice. Another person can not give me what I dont give my self.

I love how accurate the Iching answers

 

[Thebelljar]

Hi Freya, do you mind sharing what happened?