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Me and my husband are planning on separating in few months. It has been a 7 year marriage with one child. I and my husband do not have any emotional/physical bond . It is my husband who has somehow lost interest and does not even want to work on making it better though initially I wanted the relationship to work. Now I have given up . though this is a very difficult decision for me since I wanted the marriage to work.
I asked the question
"will i get romantic, emotional & physical satisfaction in near future if yes how when???"
I got hexagram 22 with no changing line....in this question my focus was more on abstract things like will I ever get the satisfaction that has eluded me till now in my married life..

I asked another question today
"Is there another man in my life.when and how will i meet him"
I got 42.3
In this question my focus was more on if there is another person in my life
Look forward to your insights..
 

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"will i get romantic, emotional & physical satisfaction in near future if yes how when???"
I got hexagram 22

Hex 22 suggests yes, possibly someone new will appear in late August of this year.

"Is there another man in my life.when and how will i meet him"
I got 42.3 > 37

Same question. This line says that due to your separation you will meet with a better man. Hex 37 suggests a new family this year.
 

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Another question same answer

Thanks Willowfox for your insights . This makes me feel positive on Future

On my professional front I am seeing a lot of success but just at the end moment i have setbacks on all of that success which is something totally because of bad luck and not something that could be controlled. I asked the question today
"what should i do to be successful and lucky at work" I got 42.3 again.

how should I interpret it...
 

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"what should i do to be successful and lucky at work" I got 42.3 again.
how should I interpret it...

I agree with Willowfox that 22 is very positive for your question, ""will i get romantic, emotional & physical satisfaction in near future if yes how when???""
It's rather striking that you received 42.3 twice in one day.

Wilhelm reads 42.3 as:
One is enriched through unfortunate events.
No blame, if you are sincere
And walk in the middle,
And report with a seal to the prince.

This is promising because you have been going through unfortunate events at work. The Yi seems to be advising that you make use of these unfortunate events, be sincere, stay centered, seek the middle path, and work closely with or report to your superiors. The relating hexagram is again 37: your relationships within a close-knit social group, so you need to attend to how you get along with people you work closely with. All in all it looks very positive.

Tony
 

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On my professional front I am seeing a lot of success but just at the end moment i have setbacks on all of that success which is something totally because of bad luck and not something that could be controlled. I asked the question today
"what should i do to be successful and lucky at work" I got 42.3 again.

how should I interpret it...

Okay, you are having a hard time at the moment but don't worry about it as everyone has off periods in life, this line is telling you to continue to do your best, don't waver and don't compromise your principles, do only what you deem as being right and it will all work out fine.
 

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Thanks Willowfox and Tony for your insights. I was intrigued that I got 42.3 twice in a day on two different questions. but 42.3 does make a lot of sense on what I need to do. I am facing back to back last minute failures for sometime now-- inspite of winning the contract something uncontrollable goes wrong at the last minute. It has now happened 5-6 times. Hopefully this phase will pass.
Thanks again!!
 
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62.1.4.5 leading to 63 - About a life partner coming into my life

"will i get romantic, emotional & physical satisfaction in near future if yes how when???"
I got hexagram 22

Hex 22 suggests yes, possibly someone new will appear in late August of this year.

"Is there another man in my life.when and how will i meet him"
I got 42.3 > 37

Same question. This line says that due to your separation you will meet with a better man. Hex 37 suggests a new family this year.

Hi I am new to the forum but have read numerous postings while learning about the IC. It's been great to get so much insight, thank you :) Hilary, Rosada, Willowfox, Dobro, LightofReason, Frank and everyone who contributes to the exploring divination section seem so dedicated :hug:

When I first starting consulting the IC and learning I thought it didn't answer questions about what the future holds :confused: but I came across this posting from last year where someone asks exactly that i.e. about a new man appearing. So i asked a similar question - "Will a life partner that I really like a lot, come into my life in the near future?" and I got 62.1.4.5 which leads to 63

I get my answers from various sources online but mainly from the Total I Ching book by Stephen Karcher. His response for this one says....

62.1 "small traverses, he acts like a flying bird, trap! the way closes" and he goes on to say not to impress people but to stay low and humble and grounded and don't fly away because if you do you'll surely regret it (funny because I'm definitely planning to go away for 3 months in November this year but was also seriously considering a short holiday in July)

62.4 "small traverses, this is not a mistake. He does not pass it by, he meets it. Let the adversity that is going be a necessary warning. Don't use this in a long-term Trial" he then explains that this means the transition is made and the small has found the connection and this is not a mistake...to take a look at dangers you've just passed through, the memories and ghosts and to let them be a warning i.e. don't go back
(well I have been through considerable pain trying to get someone out of my mind and heart these past few years, not to mention waiting and hoping for a strong connection to come along)

62.5 "small traverses, shrouding clouds bring no rain yet. it comes from our western outskirts. A prince with a string-arrow grasps another in a cave" He explains this as the "climax above" and that the culmination is coming, the autumn rains and the harvest...."You make an enduring connection with someone who is in retreat. This will open up a whole new life"....then adds it will be "a stimulating influence..."
(that sounds very positive!! as if I WILL meet someone I connect strongly with)

Could anyone please shed light and confirm if I'm on the right track.

Also how do you determine dates from readings? I notice Willowfox refers to august and also "this year" in the posting above which was posted in April 08 I think......

Much appreciated :)

Jasmine (Jazzy)
 

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