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Relationship Questions - 40.1>54, 34.2>55, 7.1.6>41, 1.5>14, 53uc

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I asked the I-ching a few questions:

1. Should I pursue a relationship with this person? - 40.1 > 54

2. Will I and this person become a couple? - 34.2 >55

3. What is the general scenario of a relationship between me and this person? 7.1.6>41

4. What are the chances of me and this person become HAPPY as a couple? 1.5>14

5. What are the chances of this relationship later develop into marriage? 53uc

1 - 40.1>54
- I believe that I-ching is giving the green light with this hexagram, meaning that there's no need to worry about pursuing a relationship with this person. I don't take it as a "yes" or "no", but rather I'll be fine with whatever outcome this pursue will have.

2 - 34.2 > 55 - Even though this is a "yes" or "no" question, I don't think things are set in stone. Again, I take it as a green light.

3 - 7.1.6>41 - This one is tricky for me. The line 1 encourages me to ask for guidance, perhaps? The line 6 is a by-product of putting into practice the guidance I received in the line 1?

4 - 1.5>14 - Going with the flow will lead to happiness, perhaps.

5 - 53uc - Some people say that unchanging hexagrams mean that no change will present itself whatsoever. I'm not sure if that's the right way to interpret it, but if there's a potential it's way down the road. It might be a little too early to consider getting married and that's why I took this hexagram.
The maiden is given in marriage.
Good fortune.
Perseverance furthers.


Any guidance will be appreciated.
 

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40.1 Would you describe yourself as being on the rebound? This line suggests you have recently gotten out of a relationship and should give yourself a chance to regroup before taking on a new commitment.
 

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40.1 Would you describe yourself as being on the rebound? This line suggests you have recently gotten out of a relationship and should give yourself a chance to regroup before taking on a new commitment.
I've never been in a committed relationship, so no. However, I've experienced heartbreak multiple times so somehow I can relate.
 

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In that case I think this hexagram line may be simply cautioning about "pursuing" as in following someone in order to catch them. Perhaps your attitude should be more one of getting to know this person a bit before making him your project! Also, this line changes to The Marrying Maiden which is a situation where it's best a person patiently and follow another's lead. Can't write more at the moment. Best wishes!
 

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In that case I think this hexagram line may be simply cautioning about "pursuing" as in following someone in order to catch them. Perhaps your attitude should be more one of getting to know this person a bit before making him your project! Also, this line changes to The Marrying Maiden which is a situation where it's best a person patiently and follow another's lead. Can't write more at the moment. Best wishes!
That was my original intention! Maybe I coundn't express myself properly because English is not my native language. With "pursuing" here I mean: just holding the intention to have a relationship with this person and waiting for the right moment to get to know him to see if a relationship between us would be convenient. Thank you for your guidance!
 

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For now, what is your relationship with her (Professional, friendly ... )? Do you know if she's single?
 

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With all these hexagrams, maybe things can't move forward now... There is the hexagram 53 that talks about a relationship step by step, but UC : it may be a potential... With hexagram 7, you need a strategy !
7. 1: you have to be organized and a good reason, sincerity. Line 6 : There are people... Does this man appeal to women ? It's up to you to see with your intuition... and strategy.
 

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55 is also a hexagram that deals with taking things step by step. So again, no rush! I do think 1.5-14 is a wonderful omen for being happy as a couple but meanwhile consider the benefits of being "just" friends. When you're friends you can be so much more open and honest! The minute you become "lovers" this whole game kicks in where people stop being their true spontaneous selves and start trying to be the person they think the other one will want to stay with forever so you stop being honest and start being manipulative and it all gets weird!!! So enjoy this stage of the journey!!!
I do think 1.5 - 14 is a wonderful omen for being able to be happy as a couple, but don't wait until you are officially A Couple - as in being married with two kids and a mortgage - enjoy being a couple now as in being a couple of friends. Oh and btw, you might try keeping a diary and write down any interaction you have with your friend - you may find this causes your unconscious to give you more insight as to what is really going on here.
 

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55 is also a hexagram that deals with taking things step by step. So again, no rush! I do think 1.5-14 is a wonderful omen for being happy as a couple but meanwhile consider the benefits of being "just" friends. When you're friends you can be so much more open and honest! The minute you become "lovers" this whole game kicks in where people stop being their true spontaneous selves and start trying to be the person they think the other one will want to stay with forever so you stop being honest and start being manipulative and it all gets weird!!! So enjoy this stage of the journey!!!
I do think 1.5 - 14 is a wonderful omen for being able to be happy as a couple, but don't wait until you are officially A Couple - as in being married with two kids and a mortgage - enjoy being a couple now as in being a couple of friends. Oh and btw, you might try keeping a diary and write down any interaction you have with your friend - you may find this causes your unconscious to give you more insight as to what is really going on here.
I've been enjoying myself and investing in my own growth and self-esteem. My focus is not entirely shifted on him, so I guess I'm on the right path. Again, I appreciate your guidance!
 

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