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Juanf1986

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So I wrote a few weeks ago about my relationship with my girlfriend and was given advice to hold on a let things develop by their own, now things seem to be a bit better but still I feel there is something missing, she seems distant and there seems to be a pattern about when we can actually interact, it seems as when she is all by herself and it tends to be at specific time, she says that it’s because she is always busy and because things where a bit bad between us and she needs time to heal and comeback like to the normal dynamics of our relationship, it’s a long distance relationship and we’ve had a few discussion since I’m seem to be very demanding about her time.

so I have given her more space in an attempt to let her settle and so she can feel more liberty, however a think that she doesn’t give me enough time and she seems to be ok with that, so I asked the IC a few questions regarding our relationship.

The first one was about the nature of her feelings towards me, I got hex 20.3.6 changing to hex 39.

Then I asked about how are the energies shifting in our relationship and received hex 6.2.6 changing to hex 45.

I asked also what can I do to marry her (taking into account the distance and some of the problems we’ve had) and received hex 35.1.4.6 changing to hex 24.

In particular to this question I don’t think it’s like a very good omen, however any insight would be really appreciated, at least to understand what the IC is trying to tell me.

The last question that I asked was how my relationship with her would evolve and received hex 57 unchanging.

Thanks for reading my post and taking your time to answer it, blessings to you all.
 
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The first one was about the nature of her feelings towards me, I got hex 20.3.6 changing to hex 39.
20<>39
Seeking the right way for her through the Hardship. She is being tested whilst riding the rollercoaster of her emotions and is as yet undecided.
Then I asked about how are the energies shifting in our relationship and received hex 6.2.6 changing to hex 45.
6<>45
Not connecting albeit they are re-assembling, perhaps, though not in the way that you hope they will.

I asked also what can I do to marry her (taking into account the distance and some of the problems we’ve had) and received hex 35.1.4.6 changing to hex 24.
35<>24
The daylight will only shine through you making a turnaround. You are encouraged to find a way of meeting the hard facts regarding the obstacles you are now faced with.

The last question that I asked was how my relationship with her would evolve and received hex 57 unchanging.
There are subtle inner workings involved here and the best advice from 57 is to follow what you feel deep inside. Right now things might not be clear or settled and only time will allow things to unfold. You are both urged to consider all possibilities, even the less preferable ones, and find the one that harmonises best the pros and the cons that you are both feeling. It is in this place of balance, of the pros and cons, that you both will gain insights into how your relationship will evolve.

... or it might mean nothing like this at all for you.
 

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So, overall looks pretty uncertain to me, but 57 advises: get to the heart of the matter and act on the information you receive. From experience I'd say if someone is behaving in a way that leaves you feeling insecure, even after you've spoken to them, probably likely that they are on the fence in some way. So you could wait and see, or you could take it into your own hands and decide she clearly can't give you enough time/attention/energy and opt out. If she wants to correct it she will, and if she doesn't then I guess you know right? I have little tolerance for these kinds of things though, I'd prefer to know and get out than wait it out, so might not apply to you. Good luck!
 

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20<>39
Seeking the right way for her through the Hardship. She is being tested whilst riding the rollercoaster of her emotions and is as yet undecided.

6<>45
Not connecting albeit they are re-assembling, perhaps, though not in the way that you hope they will.


35<>24
The daylight will only shine through you making a turnaround. You are encouraged to find a way of meeting the hard facts regarding the obstacles you are now faced with.


There are subtle inner workings involved here and the best advice from 57 is to follow what you feel deep inside. Right now things might not be clear or settled and only time will allow things to unfold. You are both urged to consider all possibilities, even the less preferable ones, and find the one that harmonises best the pros and the cons that you are both feeling. It is in this place of balance, of the pros and cons, that you both will gain insights into how your relationship will evolve.

... or it might mean nothing like this at all for you.
Thanks for your response, I agree with you, I guess I just need to learn to accept the fact that things are not going to turn the way I would like and it’s for the best, it’s difficult to accept defeat but still I guess it was something in which I could have never won, I casted the IC one last time and asked what was the best course of action in regards with this relationship ship, I received hex 36 changing to 43, which I interpret as a decision which must be taken even do it will bring me pain, but still in the end I will be ok and I will become stronger in the process, but as you said things won’t be what I would expect or wish for but instead be what it is.
 

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So, overall looks pretty uncertain to me, but 57 advises: get to the heart of the matter and act on the information you receive. From experience I'd say if someone is behaving in a way that leaves you feeling insecure, even after you've spoken to them, probably likely that they are on the fence in some way. So you could wait and see, or you could take it into your own hands and decide she clearly can't give you enough time/attention/energy and opt out. If she wants to correct it she will, and if she doesn't then I guess you know right? I have little tolerance for these kinds of things though, I'd prefer to know and get out than wait it out, so might not apply to you. Good luck!
Thanks for your response, I guess it’s just really sad because it’s a relationship that I never looked for, I’ve known her for a long time and even do I always liked her I never ever tried like anything with her, we seemed unavailable at the time and suddenly she appears into my life and things started to evolve, she always says to me that she loves me, that she is very certain of her emotions, but still I don’t think it’s fair this things happen, specially if you are alone not hurting or looking for a relationship with anyone, it just appeared on my front door, but I guess that’s just life :(
 

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