Relationship status 28.4-48 and 5

[Juanf1986]

Ok so I’m having issues with my current relationship, there seemed to be a lot of love but in the end things started to get cold on her side, even do she said she loves me and says she still does but we have encountered a major impasse and I’m feeling down because to be honest I’ve never felt so much for a woman and besides I’m doing my absolute best to do things the proper way, it’s a long distance relationship, she is a Scorpio and I’m a Capricorn with Cancer ascendent, the questions I asked were “what’s the nature of my relationship with her” received 28.4 converted to 48 and then I asked “how are energies shifting between her and me” and received at first hex 53 unchanging and then hex 5 unchanging.

When I asked what she felt for me I received hexagram 14.5 > 1.

My question is how to interpret this reading, are we destined to be merely friends, can we be a healthy couple or are we meant to split apart, thanks

 

[BlindedFox]

“what’s the nature of my relationship with her”
28.4 to 48, you are dangerously close to complete rupture if you keep pushing.There is too much force being applied, a macho ego contest was held probably earier on and it was overdone. You will have "The Talk", she will be very clear and objetive (48) and each will go for now on different ways. Be selfreliant, change the minor misdeeds you have started to notice in yourself (fears, doubts, jealousy maybe) and push yourself out of this time, not searching like crazy another relationship, but understanding first why this one has become so sour for you.

“how are energies shifting between her and me”
1:hex 53 unchanging, no developement, same message as above, you are on hold, if you push it, it will be permanent, if not, clear up your mind about commitment, go step by step (53) or else let it go completely. This will take endurance that can only true love produce, not force. You will be under critic, you are the young buck in this game, somebody else may offer more expertise. Reconsider if you have neither patience nor real competence.
2nd: hex 5 unchanging, my friend, sorry, asking three times the same question, will keep you just waiting. Don´t over do it. Last warning. Don´t get distracted now.(5)

 

[Juanf1986]

Thanks a lot, did had that talk with her and I’ve been putting to much pressure on the situation, even do she is mad as hell to me she still is very receptive, which makes me happy and gives me lots of hope, fortunately I’m not into looking for another relationship, I really wish for things to work between us and I’m not planning on looking somewhere else what I’ve already found in her,
Definitively need to work on the mistakes I’m doing and need to learn to be patient which slowly can kill me, thanks for taking your time and responding my question