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My question: is it possible to work things out?
This is alot of confusion right now so i'm not sure how to read it..
Thnks
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Is it possible to work things out?Shock>
The power of the Great
We are both going through a time of great changes and in the midst of shock from seperation.

(2)-
Shock comes bringing danger.
A hundred thousand times
You lose your treasures
And must climb the nine hills.
Do not go in pursuit of them.
After seven days you will get them back again.
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My worst fears realized, my treasures - him, the time we both invested with love and devotion gone because of that "shock", but then it says "do not go in pursuit of them, after seven days you will get them back again". That'd be so great if it meant my old life back, but I don't know I'm not supposed to go in pursuit of them because I will get what I need back.
Retreat to the heights - focus on my higher self, the place of meditiation and total "okayness" with whats going on :p
Acceptance, don't worry about my losses. I will get them back later..

(3)-
Shock comes and makes one distraught.
If shock spurs to action
One remains free of misfortune.

Right now I am very distraught, I haven't had a good sleep in 6 days.
There are some changes that need to occur within the relationship JW if maybe the "shock spurs to action" could be the change that is needed..
'Shock of fate'? Yoikes, what does that mean?!
In such times of shock, presence of mind is all too easily lost; the individual overlooks all opportunities for action and mutely lets fate take its course. But if he allows the shocks of fate to induce movement within his mind, he will overcome these external blows with little effort.
Hmmmmmm.... Okay so like I know I can get through this time with some effort.
But I really just want my bf back honestly.
 
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Hi Meganj,

51.2.3 > 34

34, Great Vigour.. there is a lot of energy going on there. The moving power of thunder and the creative power of heaven. Lot's of movement, great movement and power. This could be referring to your drive towards making it work between you and your boyfriend. As I recall in your "What is my spirit?" thread, you seem to be a pretty driven and willful individual that goes for what she wants etc. This 34 could be just that energy, focusing on getting your boyfriend and yourself to work out and get back together. Some advice from 34 is to stick to ritual. When we do the things that we do all of the time, or the things we know best (rituals), we are able to exacute them with vigour and have them work out properly. More advice on 34 is to also keep your strength in check and make sure that all the energy you possess is channeled positively towards "working things out with your bf".

51, Shock.. here again is a lot of movement, nothing settled. 51's lines can help you work with all of your energy that you have towards this.

Line 2.. it reminds me of the saying, "If you love something, set it free"... just a thought, but not exactly what I think the ancients were saying. I think it is saying that there will be a time where things will come to a head. Things will get stirred up and shook and this time is important for you. During this time, Yi advices to not chase after him but use all of your energy (emotions, anger, sadness EVERYTHING) to transform yourself. These energies are powerful and effective when guided. I would say, Yi is saying that after this time, if you guide your energies into healing yourself (in only ways you can know), that you will find what you truely desire.

Line 3.. a picture of thunder at work, and doing what it does best. The thunder renews life in spring, shaking the earth and the buds from the seeds, and revives the earth. This line is very positive for you. To me it is reiterating the power of Line 2.. like an aftershock.

Overall, just all my personal opinion on this, I think that this read is saying there is a lot of energy floating around, mainly in you, but perhaps in your bf as well.. And if you use this energy correctly, in transforming yourself through the process, things are going to work out fine for you and your man. There just might be an upheavel to be gotten through. The time that this arrises is the most important time to work with the energy at hand. Guide it along.

Hang in there.
AQ
 

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Thanks answeredquestions, I was having a hard time with this one.. i'm a bit fearful when it comes to love.
He is such a kind and caring man I really want to be able to direct my energies positively especially for him because I care for him alot and he deserves a good woman.
Anyways thank you again.
:):)

By the way is the font hard on the eyes to read?
 

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lol alrighty well I better remove it, don't want to be the cause of massive epileptic seizures
 
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Oh, I was going to say, energy is better than no energy sometimes... energy is what really MAKES THINGS HAPPEN. I think about a little caterpillar, it just eats and eats and eats, then when it goes into it's pupa, it uses up all of that energy to change to a moth or butterfly. There is a lot of energy going on in that little cocoon..
 

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energy can also reverse (implode) and be a great obstacle.
I am a very driven person / energetic, but through experience sometimes when there's too many obstacles that energy can be a burden.
 

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and I don't think I made my font any better lol, and it's such a B*tch trying to re-edit color on this website.
 
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When you are in the Edit box, try switching the "Editor Mode" in the far upper right corner. If you switch it, it might be easier to see what you are doing.. You don't see all of the HTML coding in the box.
 
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energy can also reverse (implode) and be a great obstacle.
I am a very driven person / energetic, but through experience sometimes when there's too many obstacles that energy can be a burden.

I could see this being an obstacle for sure. How can you direct the energy so that it doesn't do that? So that it doesn't reverse and cause more problems? There just has to be a way..
 

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Yes, by directing my energy to the good like you said :) Good stuff
 

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Hi Megan, may I ask why things aren't working between you and your bf? I'm terrible at reading the Yi but I'm pretty good at giving relationship advice. I'm going to research your reading too. Might help me learn to do readings better.
 

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Sometimes u just have to go with what you feel, use that womanly intuition the creator gave you.

I am going to send you a PM okay lol
 

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Oh and also I wasnt totally successful in trying to interpret this one, sometimed you just dont know ya know? but take a look at the energies when trying to interpret your reading like 'answeredquestions' did and also read the judgement and image to get an idea about hex it can really guide a reading.. I find it easiest to write my reading on a paper and write down what the symbollisms could be in relation to my situation. Also sometimes the yi doesnt answer your question directly but answers in a sneaky "this is what you should be looking at instead way".
But just like anything ylu're trying to learn it's gonna take alot of time effort and patience.
 

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Thanks! I have started a text document with all of the hexagrams so I don't have to tirelessly search the web each time. Can you recommend any good books?

I also think, especially with relationship questions, it's important to phrase the questions correctly. For example Hilary suggests instead of asking

Will it work out?”
how about
“How can I connect with her on a deeper level?”
or just
“What can I do to help strengthen this relationship?”

I look forward to your message! Sounds like we may be in a similar boat?

Maggie
 

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MMMMkay, I'm taking a novice stab at this.

"Is it possible to work things out?

Was this breakup a surprise? I think 51 is about an 'awakening' needed by one or both of you, something to jump start 34 (strength/power).

51 is the opposite of peace and stability. It's tumultuous, but that's not always a bad thing. It's a strong force that moves quickly. BAM!

Shock followed by 34 Great vigor. Key words POWER. 34 suggests transformation through perseverence.

What I see is that things COULD work out but they key to transformation may need to be foreceful, a rude awakening (51). Like YOU start moving on, stop all contact with him, be happy about yur life and just see what he does. Will he miss you or walk away?

Also this line from LiSE:

Line 2
Do not fear loss, do not chase after things. You have what belongs to you, and if you lose it, it will return again.

But I'd like to see a follow up question. What does YI advise you to do to strengthen the connection. Do you wait or take action? that's always what I want to know. Sometimes walking away can be a good shock to the other which allows HIM to find his power to continue to pursue with you.
 

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BTW I read answered's comments after I posted mine and I think she's got a lot of good insight too.
"If you love something, set it free"
 

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Ahh I got a book for that too, I mostly just write my readings in it though, I have wanted to write little notes and perhaps put them in my actual book that I have (a copy of James Legge) but I don't really use it nowdays. I google the hex's and I really like this one site called theAbysmal, here's the link:
http://theabysmal.wordpress.com/
It's really great.

Yeah I agree with the wording questions carefully, if it's too broad it'll be much more harder to try to grasp, I think it would take a really long time to get to a point where you can just look at the hex and be like "this is the essence of -" for the broad questions...
I find I can repeat alot of the same questions when i'm frantic and not taking the time to interpret, bad habit of mine due to impatience (also not my virtue!) haha.
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Thank you :) I like it too.. the colors are beautiful. I love nature photography, especially trees.
 

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MMMMkay, I'm taking a novice stab at this.

"Is it possible to work things out?

Was this breakup a surprise? I think 51 is about an 'awakening' needed by one or both of you, something to jump start 34 (strength/power).

51 is the opposite of peace and stability. It's tumultuous, but that's not always a bad thing. It's a strong force that moves quickly. BAM!

Shock followed by 34 Great vigor. Key words POWER. 34 suggests transformation through perseverence.

What I see is that things COULD work out but they key to transformation may need to be foreceful, a rude awakening (51). Like YOU start moving on, stop all contact with him, be happy about yur life and just see what he does. Will he miss you or walk away?

Also this line from LiSE:

Line 2
Do not fear loss, do not chase after things. You have what belongs to you, and if you lose it, it will return again.

But I'd like to see a follow up question. What does YI advise you to do to strengthen the connection. Do you wait or take action? that's always what I want to know. Sometimes walking away can be a good shock to the other which allows HIM to find his power to continue to pursue with you.

Bravo!! :hug:
That's a good interpretation.
I will do a follow up reading either later tonight or early tomorrow and post it. Hope you don't mind if I use yours (that is a good one).
Thanks Maggie!
 

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