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In a moment of contemplation over many first dates with guys that have gone absolutely nowhere, I asked Yi a question. "Why have these dates with men not resulted in a relationship?" My answer: 25.3.5.6 > 55.

I think Yi was telling me that first of all, stay in the immediate and remain unattached. I believe it also reminds me to stay sincere, chill out about this and that the time is not yet for me to be with the one who I will find happiness with. (Yes I know, happiness starts from within and cannot be found in another person...) What is your take on it?
 

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You asked, "Why have these dates with these men not resulted in a relationship?"

25.3
Undeserved misfortune.

So things didn't connect and it wasn't your fault.

25.6
Use no medicine in an illness
Incurred through no fault of your own.

So don't try to change yourself.

25.7
Innocent action brings misfortune.

Yep, just not time yet.

so meanwhile...
55.
Be not sad.
Be like the sun at midday.

-rosada
 

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You asked, "Why have these dates with these men not resulted in a relationship?"

25.3
Undeserved misfortune.

So things didn't connect and it wasn't your fault.

25.6
Use no medicine in an illness
Incurred through no fault of your own.

So don't try to change yourself.

25.7
Innocent action brings misfortune.

Yep, just not time yet.

so meanwhile...
55.
Be not sad.
Be like the sun at midday.

-rosada

25.7 ? :eek: noone ever cast that before
 

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In a moment of contemplation over many first dates with guys that have gone absolutely nowhere, I asked Yi a question. "Why have these dates with men not resulted in a relationship?" My answer: 25.3.5.6 > 55.

I think Yi was telling me that first of all, stay in the immediate and remain unattached. I believe it also reminds me to stay sincere, chill out about this and that the time is not yet for me to be with the one who I will find happiness with. (Yes I know, happiness starts from within and cannot be found in another person...) What is your take on it?

You are on overload (55)...give it a break. Its a bit like being in a cake shop and not knowing which cake...so how do you see the cake you want and you eat so many you feel sick....Maybe you need to have a fresh palette, (hex 25) develop a true appetite...you can't tell what cake you want...or what cake will make you happy when you are cramming in a bite of each and every cake (date) in the mistaken belief that if you bite into enough of them you can deduce which one is for you (25.6) you just end up wanting to puke (25.5) and the solution is to stop cramming in order to discover your genuine (25) appetite for what you want in a relationship.

I don't think you probably know right now, maybe you need to be less structured about it (25)


That was an impressionistic reading equating relationships to cakes.....which could be quite a weak metaphor
 
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Follow Up

Ironic how life goes sometimes. Two days after I posted this originally, I went out on a date with yet a different man. He and I both consider that date to have been a "magical evening". It was the most romantic, enchanted night of my adult life so far. He wholeheartedly agrees to that statement as well.

So, we've seen each other a couple times since then and this past week, he encountered some major job stress. His department director and half the staff were fired and he is picking up some of the slack with projects left behind. Even in this stressful environment, I believe we are still on track for a great new relationship.

I am not interested in doing any of that multiple-guy dating anymore. This is the one I'm interested in and I know he feels the same way. Given the depth of the emotion I'm already feeling here, I asked Yi, "Will C become my husband?" and received a 14.6 > 34.

I believe Yi responded that while we're still in a time of building things in a controlled way, through the stressful situation he has encountered, the possibility of making that a reality could actually happen. I think Yi is also telling me to get clear on what it is I want and take each cautious step one after the other as things build between us. Don't get too far ahead of yourself, but the possibility is definitely there for that.

Interesting to note, I do get a lot of 1s and 49s when casting about him. I think Yi is telling me that no matter what, this is gonna be a life changing relationship for me. Perhaps it is one that will allow me to heal the past hurts (as well as do the same for him). I also believe the castings reflect that this is one that's ordained from on high and I'm assisted here by heaven. No matter what happens, it's very auspicious and whatever outcome I get as a result, that was meant to be. I never saw this one coming!
 

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Update....C was not *the* guy. Now I'm dating someone completely different. He wound up vanishing and later telling me that he had a tendency to put up walls and shut people out. He was "working through some things". Guess that wonderful, romantic feeling was too much for him....or that he just plain lost interest. Regardless, I've had to move on. Time will only tell if I am on the right path. Thanks for all your help in your interpretations, rosada and trojan!
 

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