Relationships 61.2.5 to 27

[danielc]

-Background: First at all, English is not my first language. I'm at a crucial moment with X. We've been going out for six months, but she realized she's not ready to be with someone in a sexualaffective sort of way, even though she says she really likes me and loves me in the same way I do love her. She propossed me two options: being friends or split apart. I don't know if I could feel ok being with her as a friend, because I still have hope in a serious relationship. I'm willing to wait, but I'm not sure if it is going to be worthy at the end of the day. I've ask I ching a couple of times before what life could bring me if I keep persevering with our relationship, and most of the times I get keep persevering, success on my way or things like that.
-Question I asked: (Originally in Spanish: ¿X y yo tendremos la oportunidad de estar juntos como pareja este año?) Will X and I have a chance to be together as a couple this year?
-The answer: 61.2.5 to 27
-My feelings and thoughs: I'm not an expert at interpreting readings, but I've realized that I Ching predictions are pretty accurate most of times. Reading the answer I got made me think of changing and how it is neccesary if I want to achive something with X. I also thought of improving myself and keep persevering on that. Anyways, I wanna read your thoughts on it in order to make the right choice, or at least be conscious of what to expect.
(I know it is a yes-or-no question, but I didn't know how else I could ask it)
Thanks in advance.

 

[moss elk]

She propossed me two options: being friends or split apart

Six months have passed and now you've come to the moment of (inner) Truth.

She has just told you she wants friendship and nothing more from you...

So, your choices are really limited to:
1-being friends (with someone who likes the attention and affection you give her but will not reciprocate.)
and
2-splitting apart.

Choose.
It's that simple.

If you choose 1,
and you cannot turn your feelings off.
you'll likely end up at #2 anyway.
(only with embarrassment and resentment weighing you down towards a person who doesn't fully value you.)

So, think carefully.

 

[danielc]

Six months have passed and now you've come to the moment of (inner) Truth.

She has just told you she wants friendship and nothing more from you...

So, your choices are really limited to:
1-being friends (with someone who likes the attention and affection you give her but will not reciprocate.)
and
2-splitting apart.

Choose.
It's that simple.

If you choose 1,
and you cannot turn your feelings off.
you'll likely end up at #2 anyway.
(only with embarrassment and resentment weighing you down towards a person who doesn't fully value you.)

So, think carefully.

Thanks for your reply. Anyways, I'd like a response closer to the reading itselft.

 

[marybluesky]

Hello;

I'd say there is chance for you to reunite, but it should be grasped.
61.2 talks about an invitation to share the inner joy, and 61.5 is about confidence between two people. It is the inner truth. To see the concrete results, you have to cultivate the potential. It remains there unused otherwise.