Relationships problems 50.1.4.5 > 9

[MoonCatcher]

I'm really struggling with my relationship. I find myself constantly irritated with my partner and initiating huge arguments over things that bother me about him. I love him very much but he often does things that upset me so much which could be avoided with common sense. I feel there is no excuse because I've been really kind with him and spent a lot of time and energy explaining to him what triggers my anger .
I'm worried that I'm starting to feel like his mum and this will go further downhill if this continues.

I asked the Yi: Will the dynamics of our relationship becomes more balanced?

50.3.4.5 > 9 is my answer

I take this as huge bumps along the road to my words eventually sinking in?? Is 9 advising me to be gentle perhaps ? Thoughts are so welcome!!!

 

[juaneros]

Hi MC. Hex 50 probably relates to the transformation you want. Line 4 seems to be how you react to his actions. Line 1, maybe a way to work this out, clearing and finding maybe unconventional means to fix the issue. Line 5 maybe how you wish everything was in the relationship. Hex 9 sometimes for me it means better times are ahead but not just yet. I could see of being more gentle on the outside to be true, maybe more focus on the inside though, sometimes it all has to do with your thoughts for the situation at hand. Well, even though it was a yes/no question... I think it gives you more of an advice than the answer, maybe it's all up to you and of course your partner to find that balance. Good luck there!

 

[MoonCatcher]

Thank you Juaneros for taking the time to give your opinion. your interpretation seems to make good sense

 

[rosada]

I think 50.3.4.5 is encouraging your work on yourself. As you become more confident and capable you will be able to stay calm and have a more level-headed reaction to whatever he is doing. 9 describes a person who is single and whose life is simple and not entangled with anyone else. By taking care of his own needs the sage is not disturbed by the actions of others.

 

[MoonCatcher]

That's a very very interesting take Rosada! I would have never thought of it this way! ��