Renew contact? 29.2 to 8, 38.2.4 to 27

[laperdida]

Hello, and Happy New Year to all!

I dated someone briefly in June-July. He ended things unexpectedly because he said he wasn't in a good place mentally or emotionally to be dating. Then cut off all contact with me. I really, really liked him (did I say really?). Just an immediate connection the likes of which I haven't felt in years. I tried reaching out a few times since but I think he blocked my number/profile on social media when we stopped dating. (I promise I did nothing to justify this reaction! ). He also deactivated his profile on the site where we met. Until last week ...

I'm so tempted to try once more, but don't want to upset/anger/scare him. Or embarrass myself. Here were my questions:

Will he eventually send me a message?
29.2 to 8

My thoughts:

- 8 = the context, i.e., my question is about seeking union

- 29.2 = It's a tricky situation, so don't expect much. But it says small gains, which isn't the same as "no," right? So maybe, for example, he'll say hello but not pursue anything further?

Should I go ahead and send him a message?
38.2.4 to 27

- 27 = Consider whether this action would nourish me? Or that I'm seeking some sort of nourishment (acknowledgement, response, satisfaction) by reaching out.

- 38.2 = 'Meeting a master in the lane – not a mistake.'

We've been reunited (in a sense) unexpectedly, although neither has acknowledged it. "Not a mistake" ... there's a significance behind us meeting again, I shouldn't ignore this chance meeting? Or the opposite--yes, we've been thrown in one another's paths again, but it doesn't really mean anything.

38.4 = 'Opposed, alone. Meet an inspiring man. Joining together in truth and confidence. Danger, no mistake.'

Could be describing our past relationship? When we met, I was lonely/afraid to open my heart again and he inspired me. Seeking union has risks, but it wouldn't be wrong?

I'm getting from all of these "no mistakes" that reaching out wouldn't be wrong. But doesn't seem overly encouraging either. Maybe Yi is saying that it wouldn't be a mistake necessarily but would it nourish me, give me what I need? Or would it only be nourishing temporarily, like junk food.

Am I on the right track? Thank you in advance for your thoughts!

(Edited for sloppy punctuation.)

 

[laperdida]

I'm replying to myself, ha!

I asked a folllow-up question:

Please give me insight into how he would respond to my message.
46 unchanging

Would you say that this is encouraging? It's not a 12 or a 23 or something that more clearly indicates a negative reaction. But does it necessarily mean he would respond? Could it be saying, well, just do it (push upward) and find out for yourself???

 

[laperdida]

UPDATE (for what it's worth):

I contacted him and he replied immediately! Told me that he'd missed me and never stopped thinking about me. And we began dating again. (Until Saturday when it all went terribly wrong.)

So I suppose 46 uc did indeed indicate that he would "push upward" with our relationship? And 38.4: we did meet again and join together in truth and confidence; there ultimately was danger, but it wasn't a mistake because now we've answered what "could have been."

 

[rosada]

Thanks for the update. Sorry it didn't work out. These are tough times (obviously!) astrologically. Mars (energy) is coming up to bang into Saturn (harsh reality and limitations) April 1, a indication of great frustration and finally a busting past all the rules. We're seeing this manifest on a global scale with the struggle to contain the virus (Saturn limiting Mars) and possibility Trump will encourage people to go back to work despite the danger (Mars going beyond Saturn). On a personal level this could be an indication of you getting to see the reality of the relationship and move on.

 

[laperdida]

Thank you! Yes, definitely some harsh realities faced in this case Not quite the dream man I thought he was.

Globally, I hope that whatever happens in the coming month is a change for the better--that the decisions made are not as disastrous as I'm fearing. Thank you again for taking the time to reply. Wishing you and your loved ones good health.

 

[moss elk]

Will he eventually send me a message?
29.2 to 8
My thoughts:
- 29.2 = It's a tricky situation, so don't expect much. But it says small gains, which isn't the same as "no," right? So maybe, for example, he'll say hello but not pursue anything further?

Sorry I missed this post in Jan.

29.2 is a No.
Small gains, As in "it's ok to fill your canteen one time from this arsenic spring, but don't build a well there, repeated daily drinking will kill you."

 

[laperdida]

Sorry I missed this post in Jan.

29.2 is a No.
Small gains, As in "it's ok to fill your canteen one time from this arsenic spring, but don't build a well there, repeated daily drinking will kill you."

Thank you. What you say is more true than you know! He treated me quite badly on Saturday, although it somehow ended with me apologizing and giving in to his unreasonable requests. Continuing this relationship would certainly have been poisonous to me.