Romantic trip to Spain

[MoonCatcher]

So I asked Yi whether I should stay in Spain with my guy for 3 days or 5 days.

Answer I got was 52 unchanging which I interpreted as "stay for longer" - keeping still.

Then to confirm - I asked again. Did I book right amount of time?

I got 20.5 > 23

This could be saying that I stay long enough to explore things in his environment before (23) departing? I hate 23 as a hex and hope it means the physical departure only haha.

Then sorry I couldn't help it. I went for the plunge and asked. "What will be the outcome of my trip?"

I got 33.5.6 > 62

that sounds a bit scary... that for some reason I will freak out and retreat from him?

(Additional info to help any interpretations. I've just recently broken up with my boyfriend of two years who I was no longer in love with. This new guy appears to be really infatuated with me. He wanted me to stay for longer... he did mention that he may fly back to London with me which I felt would be somehow... too much since I wish to spend a short fun time with him and then get back to my life here without too much distraction. I do share his strong feelings though)

 

[loverofknowledge]

52:
be still and let the answer emerge. It sounds like you have mixed feelings about being with him longer -- your different desires are clouding your intuition, perhaps (based on the additional info you supplied, together with the early remarks). Be still. With confidence that the answer will emerge

20.5 to 23
23 mirrors your self division. Why would you be asking the question otherwise. 20. 5 counsels you to look yourself and your character. What's underneath your question? if you are totally at peace with yourself, in relation to your new boyfriend, your doubts may dissipate.

33. 5. 6 to 62
The trip is a retreat itself, isn't it? Enjoy the retreat, until it is time to return to life. 62 means pay attention to the details and do not create a big drama in your mind about your relationship and this vacation.

 

[mirian]

Hi moon catcher,

Looking into all the readings, I don't see this relationship moving forward. It all sounds to me as an opportunity for you to re-assess your romantic life, getting things into perspective, really. I don't know if you are already on your way, but I see you retreating from going any further with this guy, without any doubts.

 

[Tim K]

3 or 5 days? 52 shows lines 3 and 6, curious. Probably 6 days, either 6th line, or 2 trigrams showing 3rd line = 6.

Right amount ? 20.5, graphically 23 says 6 days again, 20.5 points to 5. I think yes 5-6 days is ok, the superior man will fall into no error.

Outcome? 33-62
Accepting[.5] the need to go back[33] and that you can only be with him for a small amount of time[62].
I don't know whether it will be the last visit as mirian seem to imply, or just that he will move into category of a friend abroad whom it's nice to visit from time to time.

 

[MoonCatcher]

Thanks everyone for your replies!! Very interesting interpretations.

I'm going tomorrow and will update you on how the trip went next week.

 

[MoonCatcher]

Ok guys I have an update. I'm back from Spain :-D

I had the most amazing time. Fate decided that I would end up staying for 6 days. (so you were right Ashteroid!!)

It was one of the most romantic trips I've ever had with a man... like totally magical. I was very surprised by how lovely his friends and family are - I expected him to have a lifestyle that would scare me. But it didn't... my connection with him grew deeper. We had a natural mental and physical compatibly that didn't exist in my previous relationship and he makes me feel truly happy. Yes of course my logic gets in the way... but I hope to definitely see him again... so lets see!!

 

[Tim K]

Wonderful update MoonCatcher

Would you mind writing your ideas about the 'Outcome? 33-62'
Did you accept[.5] the need to go back[33] and that you can only be with him for a small amount of time[62] ?

 

[MoonCatcher]

No problem... so this is my take on it.

I think loverofknowledge kind hit the nail on the head. 33 represented a "retreat" - holiday in itself.

The extra two days made a difference to the growth of our interactions.. I think 62 represented something interesting. At the end of the trip, we admitted that we "loved each other a little bit"...

So I think 33 represented me retreating from my hectic life over here... (5) I accepted the opportunity for redirection (6) staying brought benefits. Transforming to (62) a small step towards it being more serious.

OR 62 could have represented the amount of extra time... i.e. just extending a small amount of time.