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yibee

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Hi All,

Could someone help me interpret the following hexagrams for me please?

Some context.

X and I met and dated for about 3 months. Most loving and emotionally intimate relationship, even discussed marriage.

Some stuff about X

1. X had been hurt and betrayed by his ex and had lots of fears constantly keeping tabs on me and being posessive.
2. X is extremely family oriented and crazy about his Mum, even cut short our first date to go home and cook for her and always put his family first over himself and our relationship. Cancelled many dates to attend to his family responsibilities.

But still X was devoted, attentive and caring until the time when X disappeared without any contact on two occassions and then phone calls started declining but once resurfaced and told me he didn't want to break up with me and wanted to salvage things. Then I went home for Xmas and he wrote to me to come back quick. I come back and he cut off all contact with me, changed his phone number and vanished without any explanation leaving me emotionally devastated. I made several unsuccessful attempts to contact him and finally wrote him an email about what I thought of his cowardly actions and broke off. After months of weeping, I started moving on but felt I needed to seek answers. He still checks up on me and that confuses me because he makes no attempt to make contact or get back with me.

Ive been writing emails to him lately about how Ive moved on but how much he hurt me and also the emotional feelings of our time together.

So I asked iching:

1.What will be the outcome of my communication and is there any chance if X will talk and give me the answers I am seeking?

Hexagram 5 unchanging

2. Can I expect to happen anything at all between me and X in future and Is X still the ONE for me?

Hexagram 24 unchanging

3. Why did he leave me?

Hexagram 57>44


Ive been a former iching sceptic and always believed people in a relationship should talk to each other than consult iching. But ironically X has vanished and I can't have a one-sided chat. Im now humbled and seek iching for guidance. I seek interpretation to my readings. Pls help me understand.
 

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Hi All,

So I asked iching:

1.What will be the outcome of my communication and is there any chance if X will talk and give me the answers I am seeking?

Hexagram 5 unchanging

2. Can I expect to happen anything at all between me and X in future and Is X still the ONE for me?

Hexagram 24 unchanging

3. Why did he leave me?

Hexagram 57>44


Ive been a former iching sceptic and always believed people in a relationship should talk to each other than consult iching. But ironically X has vanished and I can't have a one-sided chat. Im now humbled and seek iching for guidance. I seek interpretation to my readings. Pls help me understand.

First question, 5 unchanging; Waiting, waiting and more waiting for an outcome that may or may not be. Maybe, maybe not. To me, it suggests you're waiting for nothing, or you're waiting for an outcome that you'll never receive, so instead of waiting PRODUCTIVELY, in THIS case you're waiting for nothing. The second question/answer explains this further.

Second question, 24 unchanging: No, break free from this, because it's going to be the same old same old. He's got issues, you don't need to wait for this guy.

Third question: He's got other girls/relationships. You are not the ONLY one on his radar.

Don't want to hurt your feeling or be negative, this is just my interpretation of your reading.

I think you're being played.

Good luck.

--YM
 
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yibee

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Thanks youngmaid. The thing that confuses me most is his snooping around. We both met through online personals and while I am still active, hes totally inactive lately.

I had once joked maybe he is seeing someone else, which is why he frequently cancels our date to which he had angrily retorted that I can speak as much as I want about his attitude but not to cast aspersions on his character because he knew the pain of being two timed and being cheated and he would never do that to anyone!

He has issues, but the thing is he is a psychologist himself!

Which is what makes the whole situation so confusing.

He also said he never intended to hurt me but he has a lot going on his life that he can't explain.
But whatever said and done, he is not with me and left me in the lurch.

In between, I had consulted a psychic and I was told he has lot of fears and that something his mother said may have influenced his decision to withdraw.

When I recall how real and commited he was to our relationship, I can't belive he is the same person who is capable of running away. It just doesn't add up. Maybe he was hiding a lot of things.

To seek greater clarity, I asked Iching again

Will X come back? And got 24 Unchanging again!

I will meditate on the readings and keep moving ahead. Im done with being stuck in futile relationships and situations.

Thanks much.
 
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yibee

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Hi, for all readers

An update. I had a background check run on him today and it turns out that he had lied about his socio-economic status Job, Qualifications, Properties, Business and Assets. Nothing about women or marriage.

And when things got too deep looks like he could not carry on the deception and went into hiding.

I know he is bad news. But I can't forget how loving he was. He would send a good morning text first thing in the morning when I woke up, and enquire how my day was every day for months with regular phone calls even if he couldnt meet me too often, cheer up my mood, sing songs and was so full of life.

I cannot judge him harshly but feel the situation as unfortunate. Several times he attempted to talk to me and withdrew. Now all the pieces of jigsaw puzzle have fit in.

I am hurt. And he is too. I wrote to him as a friend that misinterpreting and misleading someone is not too great. But not to be ashamed of his current job or his status as there is no shame in hardwork and suggested options for his career and to better his life.

Then, I asked Iching

1. what is the best way to cope and heal with the truth Ive discovered?

I got hexagram 42>58

2. Will he talk to me again?

Hexagram 11>1

Anybody help me on this?

Thanks.
 
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