September love situation - hex 14 UC

[CheersC]

Casting about how love & similar things will be during September
Unchanging hexagram n. 14 Great Possessing. When I got it about a person I asked about I chose to stop talking to him.
''Great Possession.
From the source, creating success.
The fire is high on the sky. The noble man is dominating the evil and predicts the good. He obeys to good will of heaven". More or less... Sorry if it isn't translated the best way. My reading of it is that there will be much energy but put in something else

 

[tubinluv]

The unchanging hexagram is always tough for me to decipher, it gives a pretty vague image. Your question:
Casting about how love & similar things will be during September. It looks to me that you have a great wealth and possession to create what you want. The advice is "The noble one ends hatred and spreads the good, She yields to heaven and rests in her mandate.' So probably, things will go smoothly in September for you as long as you do what is "right", weigh your actions and obey the law of heaven...

 

[rosada]

“Thoughts become things - pick the good ones.”

 

[marybluesky]

I think it says you already have what is necessary to start a love relationship or whatever.

 

[CheersC]

The unchanging hexagram is always tough for me to decipher, it gives a pretty vague image. Your question:
Casting about how love & similar things will be during September. It looks to me that you have a great wealth and possession to create what you want. The advice is "The noble one ends hatred and spreads the good, She yields to heaven and rests in her mandate.' So probably, things will go smoothly in September for you as long as you do what is "right", weigh your actions and obey the law of heaven...

Thank you, some sort of free will. Good!

 

[CheersC]

I think it says you already have what is necessary to start a love relationship or whatever.

I must find out,thanks

 

[CheersC]

“Thoughts become things - pick the good ones.”

That's right... May it be related to some kind of law of attraction thing? Ps. I am sometimes using visualizations.

 

[CheersC]

This casting is quite shifty... Due to the fact it's unchanging, i guess. Because right now it seems there aren't any chances to meet guys, and perhaps the last one was an opportunity not to waste. I'm not sure what the resources are actually, all effort seems useless to me. I can't just stand in front of someone i spotted and tell him "hey I'm here, spot me back".
I was planning to do a one day trip somewhere because there should be (not even certain) a foreign man i saw in a picture in may and i was like woah i need to see him, then who knows he used to sell his stuff here and there. I still haven't talked about this to all my friends... Because when i talk about a plan to meet someone, it usually doesn't happen ahah.
Moreover, I'm very much alone now, the same old matter is that boys don't spot u unless u walk naked or supersexy. All i have to do is going clubbing and hope i spot someone there...and it is not my favorite place to meet ppl,since i rarely go there.

 

[CheersC]

Not even a sexual joy.
Guess it is the UNCHANGING side of hex 14, not great possession but the opposite side of it.
The mock is that some boys and a girl told me "how the heck can you be single? You are so cute you should have the crowd chasing after you".
But this "crowd chasing after me" is not there.
Can't believe how some people are so different from all the rest of guys around,who don't seem even a lil bit interested.

 

[marybluesky]

CheersC you've talked about guys chasing you in previous posts. I think hexagram 14 may indicate "having several opportunities" to make connections.
If you don't choose to form them that's another story. I've noticed that people who are always in a romantic relationship are easy-going and tend to ignore its less-than-desirable aspects. For example, many girls won't break up after the awkward sexual experiences early on. I'm not recommending you to tolerate what's disagreeable. I don't either. My point is, the crowd usually keep on chasing someone because she/he makes them feel welcome.

 

[CheersC]

CheersC you've talked about guys chasing you in previous posts. I think hexagram 14 may indicate "having several opportunities" to make connections.
If you don't choose to form them that's another story. I've noticed that people who are always in a romantic relationship are easy-going and tend to ignore its less-than-desirable aspects. For example, many girls won't break up after the awkward sexual experiences early on. I'm not recommending you to tolerate what's disagreeable. I don't either. My point is, the crowd usually keep on chasing someone because she/he makes them feel welcome.

Hey Mary thanks for showing up that's a point, I wished it was someone I liked back though, otherwise it's just friendship. But yeah just one or 2 opportunities were there but maybe I'm too picky. More specifically could it mean receiving compliments? Because I received them from some guys...