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Soo...I hope my post will get formatted well because I am about to post many castings I got today. The responses fascinated me but still I don't have a very clear picture. Background info: I met someone in the last few weeks and last weekend we hung out all night and all day long hiking and driving around. I really liked the person but despite walks on the beach, sunsets and talks, nothing romantic has happened. I can admit that I am used to male attention, and sometimes very aggressive moves I have to offset but this situation left me wondering. i can even say that I am somewhat hurt by it, regretting not making any moves and confused why hasn't he. I looked up the post on relationship questions and started following. Should I ask iching about relationship with X? 42 uc ( I interpreted it as a yes) What is a potential/what kind of relationship can we develop? 63.1>39 ( looks like not much potential)What if I make my romantic intentions clear? 48.2.5>15 (in previous forum readings 48.2.5>15 wasn't interpreted very positively, where a man wasn't pursuing a relationship https://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/fri...20-What-result-with-relationship-48-2-5-gt-15 )What if i don’t make it clear? 41.1.6>7 (seems like the situation will be in limbo) Needless to say I was upset by these answers. I understand that he can have many reasons to be the way he is but of course I look for my own mistakes so I kept pondering. How does he feel about me?53.3.4>12 (seems like he was/is waiting for the right time but then it stagnates)What’s the best attitude to take to this relationship? Hex 35 uc (just to accept it and keep waiting?)Why didn’t this relationship develop? 3.2.3>5 (that's funny, "difficult beginnings" goes into "waiting") Can i do something to help this relationship develop? 52 uc (Clearly says to stand still)So, I realized that my general theme was not so much this person and this relationship, but dwelling on self-regret about not acting out on my feelings. I've had that in the past, when I contain myself and some of my impulses and then the situation gets awkward and I regret about it. A lot is because I am so used to people pursuing me so I have to run or slow things down and then maybe not being used to express myself. So I asked those questions: Did i have to make a move? 52.2.5>57 (this did not give me a clear answer, somewhat like yes, "gentle penetration" after "keeping still" but weird)So I asked eventually: Why am I so affected by this situation? 31uc (straightforward - i was attracted to the person and didn't act and didn't receive anything)Why didn’t he make a move? 31.1.2>43 (Now I am astonished, so turns out he didn't act because he waited on me to act? I am not sure what 43 "resolution" means here, as there was no clarity by far...or does it mean giving up?) And back to the first castings, so if we both attracted to each other but the readings say there is not much potential or if I express affection, there won't be much progress? I understand that not everyone is meant to be, there might be various factors playing into people's behavior. So then I can conclude that the problem was not acting on my feeling timely and something to consider for future? In regards to this relationship, does 52 and 35 mean just waiting and seeing it develop? I do feel kinda sick that it started like that and not sure if catching up will fix it much (had similar experiences in the past).Thank you.