Should I be more or less rigid? 61.1 to 59 and 31.1.2.5 to 34

[sylwia]

Recently I had an argument with a friend. We’ve made some sort of reconciliation but I have a feeling he hasn’t done things that are important for me. On the other hand, he has a lot on his plate, lately. So I wonder if I should go easy on him, or perhaps I should be more rigid?

I asked Yi:

What if I go easy on him?
61.1 to 59

What if I’m more rigid?
31.1.2.5 to 34

I hope you can help me!

Sylwia

 

[Peter Belt]

Hi Sylwia,

61 et 59 speak to me about a strong relationship in which you need to trust (61) in order to let things go more fluidly (59).
61.1 also feels like the current situation is tense not because of external causes, but because of internal ones: you have lost your inner peace.
So, inner peace, calm and trust will solve the current situation and make things flow again.
Sounds to me like a very good advice!

 

[sylwia]

Thank you very much, Peter! Yes, it sounds like a very good advice. I'm already putting it to good use and things are better.

I wonder though about the other. Perhaps it might give me some insight as to what I'm doing wrong in some cases.