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Should I buy a house with a friend of mine?

I friend of mine offered me to join efforts to buy a house. That we can found a good house and we can adquire a loan

Yijing 14.2.3 > 21

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The great possession is to offer, not to possess . In this I agree with Hilary. I think that is the central point in the third line: "A prince offers it to the Son of Heaven. A petty man cannot do this." What is to be a prince? It is the great person. It is to search the big thing that can be carry on. What is to be a petty man? In relation with house, it is not the house itself. It is the capability to make connection with other.
 

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Hello;

14.2 says it is not a mistake to transfer what you have; and 14.3 shows you and your friend must have enough money to spend. 21 is examining, legal proceeding.

I'd say the reading invites you to measure the things up to see if you and your friend can do it.

Good luck
 

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21 is examining, legal proceeding.

I like this interpretation of "Biting Through". It made me think of the digestion in this hexagram. I think that for the good digestion we should use an slowly chew. Go through the subject to make an informed choice.
 
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My friend has found a house that made her feel a great feeling. It like the chosen one for her. She told me that this is the house. I feel terrified, because it is a big decision to make. In the light of

measure the things up to see if you and your friend can do it

I feel afraid. So I asked again to the Yi about this new scene in the whole picture

Must I jump to buy the house with my friend? 39.3.4 > 45

39, Limping

Oracle:

‘Limping. Fruitful in the west and south,
Not fruitful in the east and north.
Fruitful to see great people.
Constancy, good fortune.’


The word "limping" make me think if I am really prepare for this big decision. Line 4: ‘Going on, limping - coming back, connection.’ I feel here is that the important thing is to made connections, to move forward. Hilary said "This situation exerts a powerful ‘pull’ on you". And the fear borned because the focus is to narrow only on the way "how can handle it". This is a moment to consider "the situation as a whole". I see myself in the dimension of a human, in a way every human is a limping creature, vulnerable. But like every human I am no alone. The decision is not about the own strengh but to make connection with a supportive group".
 

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What I would be most concerned about is your relationship with this friend. Think carefully about that. Is she a lover? A friend? Do you know her well?

When two people own a house, they own it 50/50. It means that one of them may need to or want to sell its half. To anyone willing to buy it. If you own the other half they may ask you if you are interested in buying their part, but if you can't afford it, they can put it on the market. And that means that you could find yourself owning a house with someone you don't know or you don't like.

That would be my main concern.


If your Government allows it, put it down on paper that if one of you wants to sell it, then the whole house will be sold. But that may mean losing money as the market may fall in the next few years.
 

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What I would be most concerned about is your relationship with this friend. Think carefully about that. Is she a lover? A friend? Do you know her well?
Thanks for your answer. I felt very glad with a read this. Of course it is a big concern but I think that this event is more about relationships, friendship. I think this reading that is more about "Fruitful in the west and south,". It is some kind of quest.

Thanks, Al.
 

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My son purchased some property with a friend with the agreement that at the end of five years they would sell it or renegotiate the agreement. At the end of the five years the friend wanted out so my son was able to get a loan and bought his partner's share. It all worked out very smoothly. Perhaps you could have a similar arrangement.
 

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