should I call him? 53.6 to 39 and 37.3.5 to 27

[val75]

please help..I really need to make a decision 53.6 to 39

Hello,

I asked to the yi to advise me as to whether I should contact my ex. We haven't talked for a while, but he did ask me to contact during our last interaction. I received 53.6 to 39.

I'm a bit confused as line 6 seems auspicious and I read somewhere that hexagram 53 is meant to be good for marriage. But I'm not sure about hexagram 39, maybe it's just referring to the background/context of the situation?

I also asked a more open ended question: what is your advise in relation to x? and I received hexagram

37. 3.5 to 27. I'm confused about these lines.

Any insights would be heartedly appreciated.

:bows:

 

[val75]

please anyone?

 

[pocossin]

Should I contact my ex?
53.6 > 39

I think you want to and should, but the casting doesn't seem that hopeful. Line 6 is terminal, and 39 doesn't suggest easy going.

 

[val75]

thank you Pocossin :bows:

I'm still a bit confused as to the benefit of persevering in this relationship if line 6 is terminal :-( I presume that the Yi is advising this as it's the only way for me to move on?

What does hexagram 37.3.5 to 27 mean as a advise as to how to proceed in regards to this situation? Thank you again :bows:

 

[blue_angel]

It seems like 27 asks what would be nourishing in the family unit 37. 37 has its proper rules and guidelines for each member of the family in order for the family to work better together. So I wonder if it is still possible for you two to nourish each other and be like a family to each other. What are the rules, can you both agree on those rules, and how do you nourish each other?

Line 3, seems maybe there was a fight or an argument that caused one to be too hard on the other. But that's better than pure lazy indulgence. Line 3 calls for a proper balance to be found. Not to react in extremes but in moderation. Line 5 looks inspiring to me. Looks like there is a mutual affection for each other. Perhaps you can trust in him and openly approach him.

After reading this, I'm wondering if 39 shows how
you're limping now in this relationship but through
53 slow gradual progress and the proper steps,
you may just line 6, rise above and beyond. Maybe
there is a spiritual connection?

The only other less inspiring conclusion I come to when reading these, is you both may agree to disagree, but the closure will be a good release and enable you to move on and beyond.

Originally I did see it the same as Pocossin, so you'll have to go with your intuition on it and take your chances. Best wishes

 

[val75]

Thanks Blue_Angel..

I do feel there is a deep connection between us, that's why it's hard to let go even though there have been plenty of other opportunities to enter into other relationships.
I will call him and report back…maybe not straight away but eventually I will…i am certainly 'limping' at the moment, so it will be a win-win situation no matter what happens if i call him. Weird but I do feel like we could form a family. Thank you for your insight :bows: