Should I continue???

[seeker]

So I asked Yi how do I find the man I am looking for, the one to share my life with? 57.2.6. I took this to mean I am being obstructed by things within myself, that I need to delve further into hidden parts of me, but to take it slowly, and not try to rush through and figure out everything at once.

I had been going to counseling, but had been too busy the last couple of weeks. Based on the above answer, I asked if I should continue the counseling and got 11.1.2.3. I think line 1 is telling me to get out into the world and get involved. Line 3 seems to say there are ups and downs as a natural part of life, accept that and I will be more prepared to deal with things. Line 2 I am not sure about, something about dealing with imperfect people and walking in the middle. Line 2 gives me that on the tip of my tongue feeling but I just can't grasp it. Any ideas???

 

[seeker]

Think I might have answered my own question, though any ideas still appreciated. I asked what if I continue with counseling? 21, What if I forego counseling? 48.2.3

21 talks about biting through things, working through difficulties, which is very appropriate.

Both lines of 48 talk of a well that cannot be drawn from.

Though it may difficult and take some time, I think I am definately being told to continue counseling. Now, if I just had one of those time turner things like Hermione had in the 3rd Harry Potter so I could actually fit it into my schedule

 

[yly2pg1]

57.2.6
While line 2 is about delving further into your psychological part, line 6 is pointing at the heart of your problem. Probably you are exhausted, lacking the kind of impetus/courage to move forward.

Counselling?
Either way is OK, depending on what kind of person you are. Follow your instinct. It is you that best fit your situation.

 

[Frankelmick]

Seeker,

These are just my thoughts but I hope that some of it's useful to you.

Hx 11 changing lines 1, 2 & 3 is an extraordinary judgement don't you think?

Perhaps it represents the Yang stability that you receive from your counselling sessions being eroded leaving you with nothing but Yin. Totally passive.

Could this represent the old you? Completely at the whim of circumstance. Unwilling to go into conflict?

I'm pleased that you wrote, "Though it may difficult and take some time, I think I am definately being told to continue counseling."

It's a process and it takes time. You have to work with your relationship with the counsellor. It's your place where you can say whatever you want. You can talk about your feelings in a way that's not possible or appropriate elsewhere.

And it is tough. Definitely.

But you asked a big, big question, "how do I find the man I am looking for, the one to share my life with?"

That's bound to bring up emotional stuff from your past. Especially from your childhood.

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As I say, just my thoughts, but I hope that some of this strikes a chord.

Very best wishes for the future,

Mick