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If you know you don't want to leave her, why ask this question?
Then you, instill (...), know that you don't want to leave her, but not that you want to stay with her. You express yourself like that, right?
The book did not reassure you, it put you in front of your responsibilities towards yourself and towards her.
Should I end the relationship with my girlfriend?
Should I end the relationship with my girlfriend so I can have a fling with another girl?
I see a phenomenon time and again in lovers regardless of gender. It goes something like this: two people begin a dance to see if they would care to love one another. Suddenly, Skeleton Woman is accidentally hooked. Something in the relationship begins diminishing and slides into entropy. Often the painful pleasure of sexual excitement is abating, or one sees the other’s frail, injured underside, or sees the other as “not quite trophy material,” and that's when the bald and yellow-toothed old girl rises to the surface.
It seems so gruesome, yet this is the premier time when there is a real opportunity to show courage and to know love. To love means to stay with. It means to emerge from a fantasy world into a world where sustainable love is possible, face to face, bones to bones, a love of devotion. To love means to stay when every cell says “run!”
In terms of your question it could be saying your relationship has become rather humdrum and lost it's spark
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).