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Should I end the relation with my girlfriend? 29.1 to 60

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This question was immature. I came to Yi expecting confirmation. I wanted that Yi said something like "stupid little boy, You know that you don't".

Should I end the relation with my girlfriend?

29.1 to 60
 

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If you know you don't want to leave her, why ask this question?
Then you, instill (...), know that you don't want to leave her, but not that you want to stay with her. You express yourself like that, right?

29.1 speaks of a danger to which one is accustomed, speaks of an abyss in which one stands and in which one sinks even more into a hole. I shudder this image. And to you? No?

What is your abyss? Do you sink into deeply dangerous thoughts, or behave with her in a dangerous way?

29 speaks of a true heart that leads out of danger, which runs through life (or the theme of demand) with great courage and confidence in one's actions. I like it 29, it speaks to me of a fearless heart of someone who lives life to the full. But the danger is there and lies in what pulsates in that heart.

60 is quit, limited. Grow something good within certain boundaries. Not too rigid, not too soft but certainly centered.

The book did not reassure you, it put you in front of your responsibilities towards yourself and towards her.

A warm hug,
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If you know you don't want to leave her, why ask this question?
Then you, instill (...), know that you don't want to leave her, but not that you want to stay with her. You express yourself like that, right?

LOL.

Yes, something like that. I asked myself the same question 'If I know, why do I ask this?'

But I think you got the point.

Thanks, Al.
 

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The book did not reassure you, it put you in front of your responsibilities towards yourself and towards her.

I was revisiting this question the last week. I found that the answer of Yi is about this responsibility. If I follow my own impulse I will shatter her heart in pieces .

Thanks, Al.
 
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29.6-60 describes being bound if not by real cords then by spells or perhaps feelings of guilt or obligation. 60. Limitation as the resulting hexagram could refer to you're not knowing if you want to put anymore energy into this friendship. So this reading doesn't so much tell you whether you should or shouldn't break things off, only that as it is now you seem to have lost that lovin' feeling, are hanging in there more out of a feeling of not wanting to cause pain then desire, and don't know how to proceed. Perhaps it would be useful to ask questions like "What is good about our relationship?" or "What would a good relationship with this person look like?"
Incidentally, there is a particularly difficult line up of planets right now, peaking on March 24 when Mars conjuncts Saturn and energy hits the limits. You may find this is when you really clearly see whether you two are done or what sensible, realistic plans you can make for going forward together.
 

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Oh for goodness sake. Sooorry!
Okay, 29.1.
29 is considered to represent a dangerous situation and the change line at the very beginning suggests a danger of falling into "The Pit". The advice here is that one must not become too accustomed to a situation, becoming immune, letting normal routine dull the senses. In terms of your question it could be saying your relationship has become rather humdrum and lost it's spark or perhaps you are being warned that by ignoring your feelings to get out you are in danger of remaining stuck. Either way ot reads like the relationship has a bad case of the blahs.
The astrological influences still apply.
 

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I am some kind of a dick for this question. When I did this question was because I wanted to have an adventure with another woman. I promised to my girlfriend that I will end our relation before of make her pass throw the pain of an infidelity. The answer I assumed from Yi it is that go throw this way I will be "accustomed to a situation, becoming immune, letting normal routine dull the senses." If I ignore the feeling of danger playing this game I will remain stuck.
 

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My path is just beginning. I would like to share it with my girlfriend! Sorry she does not understand me yet!
 

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So your question was not just "should I end the relationship with my girlfriend?" but more like, "Should I end the relationship with my girlfriend so I can have a fling with another girl?" If that was your question then I see 29.1 as saying you have become rather bored with your current relationship and so you are attracted to the unknown possibilities of a relationship with another. The resulting hexagram 60. Limitation might be saying your interest in this other woman is limited or perhaps that the fling would be no more than a one night stand.
 

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I found this text, that I think, it evokes the reading.

I see a phenomenon time and again in lovers regardless of gender. It goes something like this: two people begin a dance to see if they would care to love one another. Suddenly, Skeleton Woman is accidentally hooked. Something in the relationship begins diminishing and slides into entropy. Often the painful pleasure of sexual excitement is abating, or one sees the other’s frail, injured underside, or sees the other as “not quite trophy material,” and that's when the bald and yellow-toothed old girl rises to the surface.

It seems so gruesome, yet this is the premier time when there is a real opportunity to show courage and to know love. To love means to stay with. It means to emerge from a fantasy world into a world where sustainable love is possible, face to face, bones to bones, a love of devotion. To love means to stay when every cell says “run!”


Pinkola Estés, C. (2017). Chapter five Hunting: When the Heart Is a Lonely Hunter, Skeleton Woman: Facing the Life/Death/Life Nature of Love. In Women Who Run With the Wolves
 

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In terms of your question it could be saying your relationship has become rather humdrum and lost it's spark

After two years I had done this question. I think the warning of the reading is about losing the spark. I am really a lucky person because I found her.
 

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